Why are girls so time intensive?

[James]

One of the top complaints I hear form other guys is how much time you gals require.

Men like to do things. So we will like to do things with you.

Girls seem to like company for company's sake . . . they will just want to spend time together doing something or doing nothing.

Imaginary conversation:

Girl: So what are you doing this Saturday.

Boy: Nothing.

Girls hears: OH He has no plans so he can just come over early and spend the whole day with me and if we want to do errands or whatever we can.

Boy really means: I have nothing specifcally planned to "do" yet, but there are probably various erands I need to run

Problem: Boy won't run his own errands if he spends the entire day with girl . . . running her errands . . and just being together.

Boy also doesn't want to really run his errands with girl. That makes them take 4 times as long and harder to do.

Boys need cave time. We need alone time to recharge. Having no current plans doesn't mean we are available for "Best Friend Hang-Out Time".

We really aren't your Best girl Friend no matter how much you treat us that way by incessant prattle and time domination.

I know 90 percent of you girls out there are going, I don't take up a lot my BF's time . . . well trust me you do (to the boy). Very few girls don't do that. I agree there are a handfulof exceptions, but chances are you are not one of them.

So if you want a more successful relationship . . .

For the Love of God. . .

Stop asking us to just hang out. Make sure we are doing something. Something preferably task oriented. And when the tasks are over, and we have had sex, encourage us to go to seperate places.

It will make us like you so much more.