Whats your opinion on this situation
Ok,
this is my first thread on here, so I hope Im within the guidelines. But I have a question.
A good friend of mine is a Spring 2004 initate into Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc. Im very happy for her b/c now not only is she a very good friend but a soror too. But we were out one night and ran into a guy she knew in highschool, they were real tight but never got around to dating, flirted alot and knew the others feelings towards them, They've been "talking" off and on for years. Well come to find out he is Frat, well at first he was cool all hugs and love but stop returning phone calls the whole deal. Me being me I pull him to the side and ask whats wrong? He tells me that He's still has feeling for her but cant and will not react on them b/c she is now a Zeta. I feel really bad for her b/c they were about to get together before she started her process. (FYI: He didnt know she was interested in ZPB or even consider sororities). I just want your opinion on the situation. I really feel bad for her and hate to see her like this, I mean she should be happy right now but the man she loves and wants to share it with has shund just b/c she is a zeta. Im asking for opinions and advice for her. She's just really confused & hurt
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