always want what you can't have

sweetTEA4me · #1 05-18-2003, 01:15 AM

Does anyone else have such a crush on someone that they know that they can't really have (bc they have a girlfriend or whatever). There is this guy that I go to school with and he is so cute (spiky type hair, really good dresser, fraternity member) anyway I have liked him for some time and he has been dating the same girl forever. Granted for part of the time I was dating someone but it was off and on, and my bf was actually a friend of my crush's!! Anyway, I have tried my darndest to get this guy and just can't get him...oddly enough my southern charm hasn't worked it's wonders

anyway...is anyone else in a situation like this too that could make me feel bettter?

PM_Mama00 · #2 05-18-2003, 02:33 AM

Sweetie, it's the story of my life. Right now I have a crush on a guy that doesn't like me... and after he found out now he won't talk to me cuz he said it's an awkward situation. Ok... I can respect that... but it sux.

lifesaver · #3 05-18-2003, 03:36 AM

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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
[color=deeppink]Sweetie, it's the story of my life. color]

(Ok, PM baby, ya know I love ya, and theres pleanty of room at the top, but I am thre with you.)

Not only do I shop there, I am president of the company.

Seriously, if my life made a sound, that would be it. Also known as, "Why cant I have what I want?"

Sadeyes21 · #4 05-18-2003, 12:39 PM

I'm a member of this club as well. My fave line guys use is," You're the nicest person I've ever met, BUT I'm not attracted to you."
nothing worse than having a crush on a guy who thinks you are ugly.

Sometimes we just have to deal with the hand fate dealt us. Plus it seems like once you have a crush eventually the novelty wears off and you move onto someone else.

librasoul22 · #5 05-18-2003, 03:41 PM

I kinda have one too, I must admit. Friend of mine. We flirt occasionally and when we are at the club together we always dance somewhat suggestively. I hate making the first move though and so does the other person. So we are kinda just in limbo.

I think part of the attraction for us is the fact that these people seem unattainable.

Peaches-n-Cream · #6 05-18-2003, 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by librasoul22
I kinda have one too, I must admit. Friend of mine. We flirt occasionally and when we are at the club together we always dance somewhat suggestively. I hate making the first move though and so does the other person. So we are kinda just in limbo.

I think part of the attraction for us is the fact that these people seem unattainable.

That's so true. The minute someone wasn't interested in me, suddenly I was so attracted to him.

What torture!

Luckily, I am over that phase.

LeslieAGD · #7 05-18-2003, 03:52 PM

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Originally posted by Sadeyes21
My fave line guys use is, "You're the nicest person I've ever met, BUT I'm not attracted to you."

There was a comedian on Comedy Central comparing this to a job interview. Something like...

"You have an outstanding resume...All the qualities we're looking for...But, we're not going to hire you. In fact, we're going to hire someone who can't even hold a candle to you. Would it be possible, however, if we called every once in a while to complain about the moron we hired...?"

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It sucks to be the one everyone considers the "best friend type."

Peaches-n-Cream · #8 05-18-2003, 03:54 PM

I saw this comedian. It was so funny and true.

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Originally posted by LeslieAGD
There was a comedian on Comedy Central comparing this to a job interview. Something like...

"You have an outstanding resume...All the qualities we're looking for...But, we're not going to hire you. In fact, we're going to hire someone who can't even hold a candle to you. Would it be possible, however, if we called every once in a while to complain about the moron we hired...?"

***

It sucks to be the one everyone considers the "best friend type."

chideltjen · #9 05-18-2003, 04:25 PM

same thing happened to me. like a a guy a lot. we dated, called it quits but i still continued the crush. (some of you might remember my story.) well i tried to convince him that just being friends was okay, even tho i knew it wasn't hoping he would say he wanted to start things up again. well he didn't and didn't want to hang out with me cuz he thought he would send the wrong msg. so i told him that i would just leave him be and not invite him out anymore and keep emails to strictly school stuff. well, it kinda backfired and now he took it to a whole new extreme and actually insulted me and my crush for him ended. but he still is kind of an ass to me and it is a struggle to carry on a coversation, when about a year ago, we could talk for hours. yeah, so i ruined that one.

now i have a new friend. he and i have been having a weird relationship ever since we met. the first night we went out with a group, i got kinda drunk and he took care of me, cuddled with me, and whatnot. from then on, our relationship was kinda touchy feely even though i would probably never date him seriously cuz he just isn't my type. well at a party we had recently, i wanted to go to sleep when the party was still going on, so he offered his room to crash in. Thought nothing of it and fell asleep. He joined me later and we KISSED! So now our lil strange friendship has gone to a whole new level. I don't think anything will come of it and we are cool about it. But damn... he was a good kisser too.

PM_Mama00 · #10 05-18-2003, 05:16 PM

Everytime I get a crush on someoen, I always keep hanging on thinking that by some miracle he'll change his mind about me. Believe it or not, this last crush that I had... I actually started to let go a few days after I got it out to him. I just wish that it wasn't awkward now.

sororitygirl2 · #11 05-18-2003, 06:13 PM

See... my problem is always monetary. I want the things I can't afford.

valkyrie · #12 05-18-2003, 06:55 PM

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See... my problem is always monetary. I want the things I can't afford.

LOL, I hear you!

krystle · #13 05-18-2003, 08:21 PM

I think I need to join the "this is the story of my life" club. Bah, there was this one guy last year (who I still think is absolutely GORGEOUS) who I was friends with..he was perfest. A hockey player, he wrote poetry, played field hockey (yes field hockey and he wore the skirt to school..that takes BALLS!) and I just...swooned. lol.I ended up telling him that I liked him and he's just like..."Thats cool, I'm glad you told me."

Nice. I still love the kid though...and he has the COOLEST last name. :-p

sororitygirl2 · #14 05-18-2003, 09:08 PM

Why is his last name cool?

krystle · #15 05-18-2003, 09:23 PM

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Why is his last name cool?

because its SCHWENK!! haha, I laugh just thinking about it :-p