Women!!!!
Ok, usually I'm the one solving everyones problems. This time I have one of my own and I need some input.
Here's the situation:
I have a GF and she's hot, cool, nice, outgoing, the sweetest thing in the world, caring blah blah blah.....she's the perfect GF. My parents like her a lot, she goes shopping with my mom and they talk on the phone. I've never cheated on her and don't plan on it. I'd seriously hate to mess this one up.
My problem comes in with my neighbor. She's 2 yrs older than my GF.....she's the same age as me. She just moved here from San Diego, California about a month and 1/2 ago. Yet, she's only been living in her apt for about 4 weeks. As soon as she came to Florida she went down to Palm Beach for a couple of weeks to visit her Grandmother. Now she's back and she's been talking to me. She's a really cool azz chick. We have so many things in common and we like most of the same things its fugging scary. Its too wierd. We like the same movies, writers, tv shows, colors, music, wine, have the exact same political beliefs, animals, its just about everything. After talking to her for a lil while I realized we have pretty much the same upbringing and lifestyle, only she's from CT originally...so she has a lil bit of a noth-eastern accent mixed in with that Cali accent. The girl travels like I do and even likes to try all these different kinds of foods and wines like I do. Like I said, its crazy. Then there's the looks ordeal. She has that California blonde bombshell look to her. She's 5'9, has light blonde hair down to the middle of her back. She has D titties and is a size 4 in the waist ( i asked her what her size was). She has a butt that'll make you think about doing her doggie style. This girl is really hot.
Now, she knows I have a GF. I've told her this so that I can make easier for me not to cheat. But, it doesnt seem to be working. About an hour ago she knocked on my door and brought me a cake she made. She said she made it for my birthday, only she mistakenly made it a day earlier....she thought it was today but instead its tommorrow. She's a little clumsy and can seem like an airhead at times. Also, she trips on stuff...like the stairs and sometimes her own feet. She claims that she doesnt have one night stands and has slept with few people ( yes, we've had the sex talk)......but I dont believe it. We've talked about past relationships and past partying experiences.....she's been through most of the same stuff I've been through.....but, like me, she says she's calmed down now and done with that lifestyle. She's flat out told me she thinks I'm hot, but what she says she likes most about me is my personality and the way I am. She's always asking me if I want to go out for a few drinks, but I decline being that I have a GF.
The situation is getting really hard on me. I don't know what to do. My friends all tell me to nail her, but I've done the banging neighbors things before and it nevers turns out good. Besides, I'm done cheating and I already have the perfect GF.....the bad things is...my GF lives 1 1/2 hrs away in orlando. Whenever I talk to this girl, right afterwards I call up my GF and talk to her inorder to get my mind off of this other chick. I just don't know what to do right now. I'm really lost. I don't want to go back to my old ways at all. Logically, it'd be stupid for me not to get involved with this girl. I think most guys would kill to have a girl like her or my GF.
Any advice or thoughts would be appreciated.
Mindlessly roaming the field of women....
-Cashmoney
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