Say the only person you have ever loved was in jail for three years. He has told you that he was okay with being friends and you having relationships with other people as long as you were honest with him, however, he is making some life changing decisions (actually utilizing his jail time and making a change

), such as making a new profession for himself and setting goals for when he is released. He has decided that the next woman he chooses to be with will be based on a relationship (and friendship) without sex until they make a total commitment to each other, even if that means waiting until marriage. You know you love this man, but you don't know if you can wait three years. However, if you become involved with someone else, he may choose someone else to settle down with and you may have missed your chance.
So...What do you do?