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12-06-2003, 12:48 PM
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?Need Advice?
This really has nothing to do with greek life or anything but I just thought maybe you could help me out.....I work with a Delta Chi from my school and we are really great friends(I guess I've always had a crush on him)well Friday we were both drinking and we kissed(ehh what was i thinking)I'm at work right now and he hasnt even talked to me and I've seen him a lot. Should I talk to him about it or just act like it didnt happen? =( What did I do!!!!
Please help
Crystal
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12-06-2003, 01:07 PM
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If you have feelings for him, and you care about his friendship, you owe it to yourself to talk to him about it. If he's your friend, he'll be cool about it. I'm sure he's kinda confused right now too. 
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12-06-2003, 01:14 PM
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ehhh
He just walked by me like 5 times and didn't say a word.
We always talk and now I just dont know what to say to him. I really do like him but I'm not sure what to do
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12-06-2003, 01:18 PM
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Just say hi, and don't act like nothing happened, but don't make a big deal of it, it was a kiss.
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12-06-2003, 01:20 PM
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Why is he acting so weird? He kissed me(not that i said no) and now he isnt talking to me...Ehhh boys
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12-06-2003, 02:00 PM
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He's probably acting weird because he feels awkward right now. Go talk to him!
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12-06-2003, 02:37 PM
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Or maybe he just wanted to hook up. I hope that's not the case, but some guys (and girls, too) will do that...
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12-06-2003, 05:33 PM
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Stay away from him . . . he has bad social skills.
Seriously, it was just a kiss. And whether he hates you, loves you, regrets doing it, wants more, or whatever, he an still show you some basic courtesy.
That he is playing that game shows a lack of self confidence and poor social skills. You guys aren't in junior high.
In act he is acting like we expect the stereotypical girl to act . . passive agressive.
Want to date with those kinds of problems?
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12-06-2003, 05:36 PM
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I'm really confused....First he want even talk and now he is acting the same old way. He asked me how my week had been as if I hadnt seen him at all...Whats up
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12-06-2003, 05:38 PM
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Well thats fine. It still shows some security issues lol . . but what else is he suposed to say?
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Originally posted by AGDGirl
I'm really confused....First he want even talk and now he is acting the same old way. He asked me how my week had been as if I hadnt seen him at all...Whats up
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12-06-2003, 05:43 PM
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I dunno but something...Ehh never mix work and pleasure
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12-06-2003, 06:32 PM
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He sounds like a wimp, but you dont sound like you're too proactive about this situation either.
If you want to know what's going, be direct and ask him.
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12-06-2003, 06:51 PM
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thanks guys!
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12-06-2003, 08:26 PM
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Kisses aren't contracts or promises. That's one thing I've learned over the years.
You need to get over your crush on him and move on because it's likely that he's avoiding you. I doubt that you'd want to be with a guy who's trying his hardest not to talk to you. That being the case, don't try and talk to him. If he wants to talk to you, he'll make the first move.
There's so many other fish in the sea, why waste your time over this one?
Last edited by Unregistered-; 12-07-2003 at 01:04 PM.
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12-06-2003, 11:36 PM
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Go kiss him right now!!! I hate women's lib.
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