Okay ladies, help me out! There is this guy that has been trying to get with me for TWO YEARS! We talk on the phone and that's it. He goes to my church (that my father pastors), so I don't want to get involved with someone and then the relationship shatters. But here's the situation. He's 31 years old (I'm 23, but age isn't the problem), and he's been married twice! He has two children by two different women; one his wife and the other when he was 16 years old. The first wife was when he was straight out of high school. She was much older than him and they were married for six years. The marriage didn't work out (according to him) because she started making more money than him and started trying run the house. She doesn't live in MN. His second wife left him after three months, if that and moved to Chicago. So I don't know if we should call that one a marriage or not. Here are the qualities: we have wonderful conversations, he's nice looking, God-fearing, positive, etc. I think that he regrets what's happened in the past, but has definitely regeared his life do what's right.
Like I said, he's been pursuing me for the past two years, and at first, I wasn't even trying to hear him. But now, I've seen the change in him and I feel like maybe he would be a nice person to kick it with.
DOES HE HAVE TOO MUCH BAGGAGE? SHOULD I NOT CONSIDER DATING HIM? HELP ME!!!
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