I don't know what to do.

annice22 · #1 08-29-2003, 08:43 AM

I went to the bar last night with some of my friends and sisters. It was good until at the end of the night when the guy I like stormed out of the bar I thought he was mad at me because of something stupid that one of his brother's said. Instead he was mad about something he heard about his girlfriend. Okay for whole last school year he did not even tell me he had a GIRLFRIEND. I was so shocked because he pursued me and still does (he probably still will even after tell me this). Earlier that night I gave him my new telephone number, so we can hang out and he can see my new place and car. I felt so hurt because how can you not remember that you have a girlfriend. He also said that there is no way for the two of them to continue (which is probably another lie, they'll probably get back together). Before he told me all of that information he tried to get me to go back to the fraternity house to talk, I said I had couldn't because I had class in the morning (which was a lie, I don't have any classes on friday, I just didn't want to go).

I don't know what to do, that a lot of information to receive after coming from the bar. I still like him. He is so cute. I don't know what to do. Do I still talk to him like I use to or should I give him time to himself? He might not even remember tell me because he was drinking a lot last night. I don't know what to do.

*edited because I forgot something.
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justamom · #2 08-29-2003, 08:56 AM

Sweetie, you yourself said he is a liar. I know it's hard to resist when hormones come into play, but a liar is a liar is a liar. You already know the most important thing about him. Why would you want to form a relationship that has no trust? Be kind to yourself and stay away from him.

bethany1982 · #3 08-29-2003, 09:29 AM

Run! You don't need someone like that. If he lies to you about his current girlfriend, he'll lie to others about you.

annice22 · #4 08-29-2003, 09:39 AM

Thank you

I went out running to try and clear my head which didn't work. I will let you know what happens if anything.

Annice

Peaches-n-Cream · #5 08-29-2003, 12:44 PM

justamom, Hootie, and bethany are right! Stay away from this guy! He is a liar.

LeslieAGD · #6 08-29-2003, 12:51 PM

I'm sure you are way too good for this guy.
You deserve better than this liar.

Optimist Prime · #7 08-29-2003, 02:58 PM

You said he was a liar. But why did he lie? Also, you lied to him, too.

ImDaChamp · #8 08-29-2003, 03:01 PM

i'd say give it to him...

guys with girlfriends need love too

Kristin AGD · #9 08-29-2003, 03:18 PM

I am really proud of you. That says so much about your character that you didn't even consider going back to his house with him. And that was before you heard the bad stuff. You are obviously a strong person, and I think you know in your heart what is right for you.
I will be thinking of you.

chicagoagd · #10 08-29-2003, 03:36 PM

I don't know about you, but if he was a 10 before, I would think his "cute" quotient would go down dramatically when he can't be trusted. Consider yourself lucky you found out now what he's like than down the road when you're more attached. You deserve better.

Moxie · #11 08-29-2003, 04:11 PM

boys are no good =)

CatStarESP4 · #12 08-30-2003, 06:43 PM

Annice22, dump the jerk! He doesn't deserve to have you as a girlfriend! I don't understand why he mentioned the girlfriend and continues to pursue you! You did the right thing in not going to his house!

Optimist Prime · #13 08-30-2003, 07:03 PM

yay, now i have 4,000 posts.

yay.

annice22 · #14 09-04-2003, 06:58 PM

Well, I'm going out this Thursday. I hope this Thursday doesn't bring anymore secrets. I haven't spoke to him and I don't play on it. I thought about it alot and I don't want to try to be with someone who probably has many girls around campus. So I'm just going to go out and have fun and try not to run into him.

Bye Bye

bethany1982 · #15 09-04-2003, 07:02 PM

Good for you!