How Long is too Long?

[sphinxpoet]

Question for the Sorors in the room. If you break up with your man and he started dating someone else within a couple of weeks (let us say a week) would you think that your ex-man had that person on the side always or maybe he was just lucky?

[AKAtude]

I think people should move on, but a week?! My first impression is he either had someone on the side or he didn't care very much about his ex-girlfriend to begin with.

[LadyAKA]

Funny I am in a similar situation right freaking now, and I say that a week is toooooo damn quick!! And as Soror AKAtude has stated either he had Miss Thang on the side in the first place (which might be the cause of the breakup) or he totally had no feelings & did not care enough about his EX. I could write a book but I will quite while I am ahead.

[AlwaysDivine]

Another perspective... alot of times guys just get with some random chick to take their mind off of their loss. It's stupid male logic. According to my male friends - It's usually some girl that tried to get with him while he had a girlfirend - and it usually doesn't last long.