FOR SISTERFRIENDS AND GDI....ONLY!

AKA2D '91 · #1 01-10-2001, 09:24 PM

THIS THREAD IS FOR ANY SISTERFRIEND OR GDI WHO IS INTERESTED IN AKA or the others... DST, ZPB, AND SGR...

Here is the scenario (mind you, I DO NOT foresee this happening)...WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

HONESTLY! This is only HYPOTHETICAL!

Your organization of choice, YOU KNOW, THE ONE you are striving VERY hard to gain membership, SUDDENLY does not accept any new members UNDERGRAD or GRAD. (The organization, itself has not "shut down," but with ALL the members it has, the national body has decided to NOT ACCEPT ANY NEW MEMBERS)

Fall 2000 was the LAST intake that organization had.

Poplife · #2 01-10-2001, 09:31 PM

Feel confused, feel bad, and then GET OVER IT!

If there is nothing I can do, then I would have to move on with my life. Since I wouldn't be a member I would have no clue why they stopped accepting women, and even if I knew what good would it do me?

Queencece · #3 01-10-2001, 09:39 PM

I would be upset for a min...then i would be angry...then like the previous post said...GET OVER IT!!!

There is nothing that I could do about it and that wouldn't stop me from keeping my grades up, working hard in the community, etc. I would just keep in mind that everything happens for a reason and realize that GOD is the one with the last say so...and that maybe one day they will open back up with their membership intake process.

Peace and one
CJ

MIDWESTDIVA · #4 01-10-2001, 10:06 PM

Life goes on.......

Greek letters or no Greek letters....I am still destined for greatness!!!

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"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." ~Robert Frost

Poplife · #5 01-11-2001, 12:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MIDWESTDIVA:

Greek letters or no Greek letters....I am still destined for greatness!!!

Go 'head, Diva. You're in the same boat with me!

Audacity44 · #6 01-11-2001, 12:29 AM

Well I would think it was a sign from God, that I shouldn't have been in the organization in the first place. I would take that sign and go on with my life. I am sure there will be something greater than a Greek organization waiting for God to bless me with.

HBCUgirl · #7 01-11-2001, 12:44 AM

I would sue for conspiracy against me!!! I hope you're not hinting at something!!! To say I would be devasted is an UNDERSTATEMENT!!! I've been waiting too long. (I'm sorry, but the whole thought makes me emotional)

sunnydays96 · #8 01-11-2001, 09:34 AM

Unfortunately, I've seen girls who have said, "oh well" to that organization and moved on to the next one that was available. Like it was a choice for either black or white.

1 Woman of Virtue · #9 01-11-2001, 09:43 AM

I guess it would depend on the individual, but I'm one of those who know's she is destined for greatness regardless, so life goes on!

Though I wouldn't want this to happen, it would be a very interesting way for chapters to determine who is real and who isn't...i.e.volunteering andcommunity improvements for the wrong reason...

Little32 · #10 01-11-2001, 10:31 AM

I would be upset, because it is something that I really truly desire, but I know realize that in life there are no guarantees. I would continue to do the things that I have always done. I would not decide to pursue another organization, because there is no other organization in my heart. I would hope to continue supporting the efforts of the organization that I am interested in, as much as a I could. I would continue to be involved in any activities that are about uplifting our communities.

chynadall · #11 01-11-2001, 11:15 AM

Of course, I would truly be emotional. But I would also take that as a sign for God that it wasn't meant to be for me. It would be hard but, I'll move on and get over it. I would continue to be involved in the community, school, etc.

Virtuous Woman · #12 01-11-2001, 12:16 PM

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1 Woman of Virtue · #13 01-11-2001, 12:23 PM

Hey Virtuous Woman, I love the name!!!

ADVOCATE · #14 01-11-2001, 12:44 PM

I have no idea what I would do at first. Sadness, anger, and maybe even resentment would run through my veins for a moment. And then I would realize that this struggle to be come a part of this sorority has always been a hard one. In addition, I am not on my time but on the sorority's time. So when it is time, intake will be reinstated and I will be waiting. What else can be done?
Peace and Blessings

Talaxe · #15 01-11-2001, 03:53 PM

I would be upset, then disappointed.

I agree with previous posters who said that it is a sign from God. He does have a plan.

I'd move on with life and probably start my own sorority.