Ok, so I had a perfect little life. Great friends. A loving family. Amazing sorority sisters. I actually like school. I have a total blast at my new job. And then BAM, guy drama!
I dated Jason a couple of years ago. We were friends before anything happened, then we started dating, things were going good, we both kind of drifted apart, things started going not so good, and then things (romantic things) kind of ended without any explanation as to why we never had a happily ever after, but we went back to being friends. I started dating other guys and he started dating his ex-girlfriend. But now, he broke up with his ex (I'm not exactly sure what happened there) and he is hinting around that he wants to be "more than friends" with me again. I'm not exactly sure what I want...he is an amazing guy and a great friend, but I vowed a long time ago to never be one of those girls who dates a guy, breaks up with him, gets back together, breaks up...I just HATE that and I don't want to be that. So, this brings me into some major confusion...what do I do about Jason? I care about him a lot, but I want to get it across to him that he can't just throw away girls when he is done with them and that there are no guarantees for second chances and no guarantees that I'm going to be around for that. The only thing I am sure of right now is that guys have an amazing ability to create tidal waves in the ocean of life