Recently I received a phone call from one of my friends. He's been working at a store this summer and had previously told me that one of his coworkers was a member of my soroity at another school. In addition to him being a friend he lives with my little. He had already had a discussion with her and they determined calling me would be the next course of action.
Apparently, the member of my sorority who attends another university had been bad mouthing my chapter. She was saying things along the lines of:
"XYZ Chapter is an embarsement to our entire sorority."
"XYZ Chapter is the worst chapter and nationals made a mistake in opening it."
Needless to say I was very upset when they called me. My first reaction was to give this girl a piece of my mind, thankfully I decided against that and checked out the facts instead.
The facts confirm that she is a member in good standing with her chapter and I've also talked with several other of her coworkers who are greek at my school. We have a close greek system in which everyone is friends are close with on another. The other greeks from my school confirmed the story.
My delima is what to do with all of this information now. I would like the girl to stop running her mouth, especially since she's doning it in the city where my schoools located.
Basically I just don't know what to do and at the same time I am so floored that she would have the audacity to say these things in the first place.
~Shady