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Old 12-10-2003, 05:01 PM
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De-Boning and Toe Cleavage

I cannot believe women would stoop to mutilation just to be fashionable...

The right to Choos

Ellen Goodman - Washington Post Writers Group

12.10.03 - BOSTON -- And so we return once more to Cinderella. Not to the Disney classic, but rather to the grimmer Grimm brothers fairy tale.

As we all know, the morning after the ball, the prince went searching the land for his true love bearing a single clue: her slipper. In the Disney version, the stepsisters tried to stuff a foot in the shoe. But in the original version, they went to an extreme makeover.

According to the Brothers Grimm, Stepsister One cut off her big toe. Stepsister Two cut off a bit of her heel. This cosmetic surgery was performed on the dubious advice of their mother who said: "When thou art Queen thou wilt have no more need to go on foot."

But the prince found the bloody evidence of their trickery, turned to Ms. Ella and rode into history. The stepsisters limped into old age.

Cinderella has long been a cautionary tale about the prospects of living happily ever after with a princely shoe fetishist. It's been used to convince women that it's better to stand on their own two feet.

But I bring it up because standing seems particularly Grimm at the moment. We now have word of thoroughly modern women having their toes shortened and their feet reshaped. Not to fit the fantasies of Prince Charming but rather of designers such as Jimmy Choo and Manolo Blahnik.

A number of pieces on a cult of fashion victims have appeared from New York to London. No one seems to know exactly how many women have had their feet cut to fit their shoes, but it's enough to alarm the various medical groups with the belief that we've crossed the line -- and not in sneakers -- from cosmetic surgery to crippling surgery.

When I first heard about toe cleavage and de-boning, I thought it was a drastic response to the incredible shrinking range of shoes sizes available at your local store. But one of the oft-featured doctors talks about it as style surgery: "simply fulfilling a need, a need to wear stylish shoes." That's a phrase that should make you raise your eyebrows, if your forehead hasn't been paralyzed with Botox.

Today, the "shoes-to-die-for" have toe boxes that are really toe triangles. The "killer heels" are actually suicidal stilettos in a direct line of descent from 16th-century "chopines" that required two servants to help the European noblewoman walk.

The style imperatives are the $500 shoes that Carrie Bradshaw invested in instead of her IRA. They are marketed on Web sites such as Choo's that double as soft porn and are displayed in every fashion magazine. They are referred to as "limousine" shoes by fashionistas and regarded as ambulance shoes by orthopedic surgeons.

Yes, I know, this is not the first time that women molded their bodies to fit fashion. And, yes, the foot fantasy goes way back beyond Cinderella, who at least danced in those slippers before she raced home, desperate no doubt to take them off.

The history goes back to 10th-century China. For a thousand years the ideal female foot was 3 inches long. Binding little girls' feet into "golden lilies" became the emblem of women's status in China. Unwrapping feet was a moment of emancipation greater than removing any burqa.

Similarly, in America, the demise of the girdle liberated more women than Betty Friedan. Now we've replaced girdles and corsets and falsies with nips and tucks and implants. In one generation, we've gone from bra-burning to toe shortening.

I may be suffering from snow blindness. The only thing you can wear in my storm-drenched city is a good pair of Uggs. But imagine what we would say if a cult of women in Kurdistan were found tottering on 4-inch heels and a sect in the Sudan had bones removed from their toes to fit some cultural boot.

Do we need Amnesty International to force the designers to walk a mile in their own shoes? And for that matter where is PETA, the People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals, when you need them? Throwing paint at furriers? What about the toe cutters?

Devout followers of boot-ism will tell reporters that high heels make them feel powerful and that, surgically speaking, women have the right to Choos. There's even a kind of female machismo in the stiletto.

But I keep remembering the line about Ginger Rogers: She did everything Fred Astaire did, but she did it backwards in high heels. Anyone ever wonder what a woman can do forward in flats? Live happily ever after?

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Old 12-10-2003, 05:38 PM
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I like heels but NOT THAT MUCH!!!!

I'll keep my normal feet, thank you very much
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Old 12-10-2003, 06:13 PM
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I'll keep my normal looking feet, too! That procedure is going to the extremes just to wear $500 heels. The Grimm Brothers were right, we need to stand on our own two feet. These designers literally need to walk at least a mile in the shoes they design and see how it feels.


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Old 12-10-2003, 06:19 PM
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whoa.... people are crazy
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Old 12-10-2003, 06:25 PM
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Yikes.. crazy stuff. A story about foot surgery (for cosmetic purposes only ) came on the news not too long ago and I thought it was insane.
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Old 12-10-2003, 06:25 PM
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Don't blame the designers...blame the women who are dumb enough to buy them.
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Old 12-10-2003, 06:43 PM
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That is ridiculous. Especially because those pointy toed shoes will probably be out next season and the normal square or oval toed shoes will be back in. On top of it, those pointy toed shoes are fugly.
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Old 12-10-2003, 06:52 PM
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My opinion only...

The newer shoes and boots with the long pointy or long squared off toes are some designers sinister joke on women.

Do you all know how BIG those things make your feet look?

I find them terribly unattractive.

But hey, what do I know?
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Old 12-11-2003, 01:33 AM
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I agree with DA! I remember when we wanted our feet to look small enough to be completely hidden by our bell bottoms... earth shoes! Now those were a good trend!

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Old 12-11-2003, 02:22 AM
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That is ridiculous. Especially because those pointy toed shoes will probably be out next season and the normal square or oval toed shoes will be back in. On top of it, those pointy toed shoes are fugly.
Thank you! I thought I was the only one who thought those shoes were fugly. There's one girl in my class who has some that are so pointy and the toes are so extra long to fit her feet (and she's a TINY girl with small feet) she looks like one of Santa's elves. It's ridiculous looking.
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Old 12-11-2003, 02:40 AM
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I think the shoes are cute, and yes they are ridiculously uncomftorable. I won't wear them because they kill my feet, and I'm definitely not having surgery on my feet. The only thing that might be nice would to have collagen or something that would give the bottoms of my feet where i step down (near the toe) more cushioning so I could wear higher shoes without pain!!
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Old 12-11-2003, 03:01 AM
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OMG, i love my pointy toe shoes and boots, they look so much more dressed up and classic that round toe. But I would NEVER pay to have feet small enough to fin in some of those shoes. That's just crazy!
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Old 12-11-2003, 06:48 AM
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I had foot surgery not for cosmetic reasons more than once. It isn't fun and I don't suggest it. I had bandages that prevented me from fully imersing while bathing and my legs were all shrivelly and hairy when the casts came off. I hobbled on crutches for over four months in Alaskan winters. I also worked retail selling shoes at that time (ooohh the irony) and I wanted to repeatedly box the ears of the women who would complain about their shoe size being too big.

Buy shoes that FIT. No one knows what shoe size one wears unless they are BOWLING or announce it.
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Old 12-11-2003, 09:16 AM
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Thank you! I thought I was the only one who thought those shoes were fugly. There's one girl in my class who has some that are so pointy and the toes are so extra long to fit her feet (and she's a TINY girl with small feet) she looks like one of Santa's elves. It's ridiculous looking.
I think they're fugly too. Not to mention uncomfortable.
Also, after wearing pointy shoes all the time for a while, don't your toes start to warp and bend together into more of the pointy shape? That's what my friend's mom says happened to her, and then I've seen other women with funny-looking feet like that, too.
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Old 12-11-2003, 11:40 AM
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But they are good for killing roaches and spiders in the corner of the room.
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