Problem

[Buttonz]

What do you girls do when you know there is a girl that is going to be rushing, probably suciding and yet most of your chapter has a problem with her? There is a girl that is a sophmore (which isnt a big deal at my school) that was supposed to pledge with me in the spring, and didn't for whatever her reasons are. However, she acted like a sister and did everything basically but wear letters and attend meetings, and alot of us feel that she thinks is is getting a bid without a problem, and because of the way she acted and things that she did alot of us dont want her. She has also pulled some personal stuff with a few sisters and there guys (ethier good guy friends or boyfriends) This I know for a fact because she tried pulling it on me. We have been trying to convince her not to sucide but I dont think that is going to work. Any suggestions? She is for sure going through rush this fall

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Edited to add: We are also totally afraid of her maybe goign to a local pledging them and totally bad mouthing all of us....we dont need someone new bad mouthing us and not someone like her...that is one reason why we might not have a choice some of us feel and just take her