Am i going too fast?

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okay, here's the scenario.
i started my new job and there's one guy who works here who i like. he's pretty cute and really sweet. we have been flirting a lot. it's been about 3weeks since i met him and we've been chatting/flirting every day. is it too fast to ask him out on a date? should i ask him out on a date? i sort of asked him casually to go get a drink yesterday after work. i told him i'd be at a particular bar at 7 if he wanted to stop by and have a drink. he didn't end up coming. i'm not crushed at all. i know his week is extremely busy. he has already worked some 70hrs this week alone and it's just now friday. also, should i have even asked him to meet me for a drink? i seriously need some sisterly help!

shelley j
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