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07-16-2002, 01:17 AM
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What should I do?!!?
I'm n a relationship where my sex life isn't that great & my mate had the nerve to cheat on me! Before I found out, I was willing to try ANYTHING...but this event has taken alot out of me. We have areas that needed to be worked on and instead of doing so, he goes else where like he is just that great!! what do I do?
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07-16-2002, 04:12 AM
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Re: What should I do?!!?
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Originally posted by Pinkgirl
I'm n a relationship where my sex life isn't that great
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Dump him!
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Originally posted by Pinkgirl
my mate had the nerve to cheat on me!
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Dump him!
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Originally posted by Pinkgirl
We have areas that needed to be worked on and instead of doing so, he goes else where like he is just that great!
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Dump him!
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Originally posted by Pinkgirl
what do I do?
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Dump him!
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07-16-2002, 07:37 AM
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I concur with Kevlar. That is one thing I won't put up with-cheating.
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07-16-2002, 08:16 AM
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DUMP HIM!
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07-16-2002, 09:17 AM
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Location: Central Florida.. miss u FSU!!
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it will be okay.
IF what he did, what sleep with another, then first before dumping him, you talk to him about it.. make him feel like shit.
i would say some revenge is in order. but after you have talked about then you dump his ass.. and find a guy to rebound with, preferably with alot of money.. 
love
ashley 
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07-16-2002, 10:01 AM
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Kevlar, I wonder if you think she should dump him... 
Pinkgirl, I wholeheartedly agree. Could you see yourself married to this guy, knowing that he has cheated on you and most likely will do so again and again? No? Then dump his ass!
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07-16-2002, 11:14 AM
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Get rid of him!....although NewGirl does have a point, he should be made to feel like scum for what he did!!!
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07-16-2002, 11:20 AM
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once a cheater, always a cheater!!!!!!
boys suck, so get rid of this tool
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07-16-2002, 01:00 PM
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The sad thing is that I am married to him!!!!!!! Now......WHAT DO I DO?
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07-16-2002, 01:04 PM
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Re: it will be okay.
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Originally posted by NewGirl
and find a guy to rebound with, preferably with alot of money..
love
ashley
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What would a lot of money have to do with anything? That's weak.
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07-16-2002, 01:05 PM
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therapy, lots of counseling, and if he still makes you miserable, i'd say divorce or seperate. not an easy choice really, but if your happiness is at stake, then it is worth it. better to have worked it out now than wait until you have kids (do you!?!) or wait until its totally unbearable.......good luck
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07-16-2002, 01:13 PM
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The sad thing is that I am married to him!!!!!!! Now......WHAT DO I DO?
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Does he have a will?
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07-16-2002, 01:46 PM
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Divorce him...i wouldn't try and work anything out...cheaters will always be cheaters in my opinion
But good luck with whatever you decide to do!
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07-16-2002, 01:49 PM
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Get some counseling! But, if that doesn't work, get a good divorce attorney!
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07-16-2002, 02:01 PM
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The sad thing is that I am married to him!!!!!!! Now......WHAT DO I DO?
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Whoops - I'd assumed you were just dating.
Let me put it this way - can you see yourself remaining married to this guy, after what he's done to you? You took vows, and he's broken his.
You need to decide for yourself if you think your marriage is salvageable. If yes, go together to a marriage counselor. If no, go by yourself to a divorce lawyer. In your shoes, I'd be making tracks to my lawyer's office - but it's a decision that you and only you can make.
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