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Question about married chicks
I wanted to see what some of you thought about this situation.
I consider myself as well as my friends to be moral men, but a situation has arose that has me thinking on what is right and what is wrong.
Let's say I have this friend. He has a girlfriend but she lives in another town. He met this chick out at a club awhile ago. She's 21, married and just moved from Detroit to Florida. The chick is hot, in my view. My friend met her husband one time while out and bought him a few drinks, they chilled and found out they have a lot in common. They get along. Now, the guys wife asked for my friends phone number, he gave it to her. The girl calls up the next day and wanted to hang out. After hanging out with her they realized they too have a lot in common and decide to hang out more. Eventually he found out that she's been sneaking behind her husbands back to meet him.
Now, they hang out all the time these days. It's got to the point to where they smoke out all the time, drink and now the chick tells him she has only rolled once and would like to do it with him since her husband has never done any kind of drug. The two have never kissed or made out as well as sex, though I'm sure the thought has crossed both of their minds. I know what happens when two people roll together, usually it ends up where the two eventually realize they have strong feelings for one another. The thing is though, the girl lies to her husband about going to see this guy. He has no clue as to whats going on. She calls him in the morning to wake my friend up, she calls him after her husband is gone from lunch and she calls him at night when her husband isn't home.
What makes this even more sticky is that her husband is in the military and is about to be shipped off to war. They've talked about what could happen should things get nasty over in Iraq. She told him she's going to stay in Florida for the duration, which means she would then have no restraints as far as doing what she wants with my friend. He has a girlfriend and hasn't told her about his friend. I know he feels guilty to a certain level, but they've never done anything to jepordize their current relationships.
What do some of you think about this situation? Is it wrong? Is it ok as long as nothing sexual happens? Should he cut all ties to this chick now, before things progress....if they do? In one sense I know that if you can't share the friendship with your current lover then odds are that it shouldn't be happening. But, on the otherhand it's just a friendship. Some of us think he should just nip things at the bud while others in our crew think he should keep coasting along.
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