Greetings and SkeePhi to all. What are your feelings about women dating more than one frat from the same chapter or different chapters? And on the flip, should there be any reason why a man should/should not date sorors from the same or different chapters?
I have known graduates as well as undergrads who have found themselves in the above situations and I'm just curious as to what the male perspective is on this matter.
Warm greetings pearlsNivy. That is a good question. I've always seen that situation as trouble waiting to happen. I think it just opens the door to conflict . If you've been in a relationship that other person knows some choice facts about you and that makes it awkward for you and can create tension in the frat. We all talk about our girlfriends and if all of a sudden she's now with your brother that just crosses a delicate line. That just doesn't feel right. Depending on how much time has passed maybe it won't be as bad. I don't think you could ever really rule it out after all you never know who that perfect lady is but I think it has to be done carefully with a lot of thought.
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[This message has been edited by Spiridon'94 (edited February 17, 2001).]
I don't really think there is anything necessarily wrong with dating someone from an on-campus chapter; however, if it gets to the point that you are dating multiple members of the same chapter, I think there would eventually be a problem.
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