hi everyone!!
you might remember me from rushing at IU last year...and now ive transferred, due to a few personaly reasons mainly. im not gonna say where i am now, not yet anyway. i dont know if anyone on here reads this, and well. i feel weird! but i will tell you i am still in indiana, but at a much smaller school (which isnt hard after leaving IU!)
i am attending COB events for two sororities here. AB is the second place i went to, but my best friend is a member. the inital pressure, and what i figured i would do, is join AB. i know almost half of the girls, we get along well, and like i said, my best friend is one.
so last week, classes start and i see flyers for CDE having informal, and my heart stops, because CDE was my favorite house at IU. while i realize, all chapters are different, i knew i had to give them a shot.
of course, ABs events are this week, wednesday, thursday and friday starting at 7. CDEs events are wednesday, thurs, and fri and also next mon, wed, and thurs, all starting at 6. of course! and AB was giving out bids this friday, and at CDE you have to attend 3 events.
i figured out that i could go to CDE for an hour, then go to AB this week. and if necessary, i can go to CDEs other events next week for full time. but i knew i couldnt alienate AB because they give out bids this week!!!
so here comes tonight. i go to CDE first, and they were meeting in their area, then going to the mens basketball game together. i had already told them i had to leave a little before 7. i ended up hanging with them in their place, then going to the game, but leaving before it started! lol. i walked in, talked to a few girls, and one named stephanie started talking to me the most. they were deciding rides to the game, and i said i had to drive myself since i was leaving early. so stephanie volunteered to ride with me so i wouldnt get lost! we had fun convo, and clicked well. then she tells me shes the chapter president. what a person to click with!
we had fun talking before the game, and she walked me to the doors, and i told her that i was actually goign to an AB Event, but mainly because my best friend was one, and i felt obligated, but that i really loved CDE and couldnt wait to come back. she smiled really big, and said she couldnt wait to see me tomorrow, and introduce me to more girls. so i was happy with that!
and of course, i went to AB with an open mind, but left with the general feeling that its probably not my place. like i said, i know lots of them, and my best friend is one...but i dont want to always be known as "so and sos best friend from home."
so. im honestly not sure if ill go back to AB tomorrow night. i know i should, but i dont particularly want to. id rather spend my time with CDE!!! im pretty sure i could get a bid there, i have the grades, and got along well with all of the girls i talked to! even at AB i was known as "so and sos best friend" already.
but i will try and post a little more tomorrow night! CDE doesnt have a specific bid day...so well just have to see!
roxydiva
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