Cheating Question

James · #1 02-03-2003, 10:38 PM

If your BF/GF were going to cheat on (sex) you would you rather it be with a member of the opposite sex or same sex as the GF/BF.

For example: Would I want my girl to cheat on me with a boy or another girl?

So which? Why or why not?

jennybloch · #2 02-03-2003, 11:08 PM

Well, frankly I'd rather my guy cheat with another girl (not that I like to think about it). It would be too weird if he slept with another guy. I have nothing against homosexuals but it would just freak me out.

LuaBlanca · #3 02-04-2003, 09:05 AM

uhm well- i probably wouldn't be too happy either way....
but neither would upset me more than the other.

don't most guys have little fantasies about seeing their g/f's with another girl anyway?

valkyrie · #4 02-04-2003, 05:05 PM

I would prefer that he not cheat on me with anybody.

Silly James.

What's your answer?

librasoul22 · #5 02-04-2003, 05:16 PM

I would feel really bad if my boyfriend was cheating on me with a guy. That would really suck.

valkyrie · #6 02-04-2003, 05:18 PM

Okay, actually, now that I've thought about it a little more (because what better do I have to do while I'm at work, lol) I guess that, while it would suck either way, I could feel a tiny bit better if he cheated with a man. I mean, if man is what he wants, I certainly couldn't give it to him, you know?

Either way, I'd dump his azz. Not that it would ever happen.

FuzzieAlum · #7 02-04-2003, 05:27 PM

I'd rather he cheat with a guy ... I'd rather think he just isn't able to deal with being gay than thinking I personally wasn't the woman for him. It's less personal.

Optimist Prime · #8 02-05-2003, 10:38 PM

Same sex as her. Cuz I handle everything else.

Optimist Prime · #9 02-05-2003, 10:40 PM

wait now that I think of it....it would depend. If I had sex with her after she cheated with a girl that would be okay because I would be vacariouly having sex with all the women that both of them had sex with. But if I was a stepping stone to lesbianism I would be seriously pissed off

James · #10 08-01-2005, 10:32 PM

I would much rather my GF cheat on me with another girl . . . I wouldn't feel competitive with another girl.

UKDaisy · #11 08-01-2005, 10:35 PM

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Originally posted by jennybloch
Well, frankly I'd rather my guy cheat with another girl (not that I like to think about it). It would be too weird if he slept with another guy. I have nothing against homosexuals but it would just freak me out.

Same here, this of course applies to whether I had a boyfriend right now. And I do not sadly.