Need Adivce
I need help with a dilema that I've had. Rush is starting at VSU on Sunday. A girl I grew up with and lived next door to for like 16 years until I was 18 years old is going through Rush. Our families are friends, and she has said openly to many people, including me, that she wants to go Phi Mu.
My problem is that my chapter isn't crazy about her and doesn't want to keep her. I understand that they have to release her, but I'm really not OK with that. But how can I persuade them to keep her as long as possible? She doesn't have a questionable reputation and hasn't been a bad girl, but they think she's "moody." What would ya'll do? I absolutely cannot call and tell her mom that we released her, but I would feel obligated because of the closeness of our families.
I think in the end that they will release her, and I guess I have no choice. NO ONE else wants her but me. Her sister-in-law is a Phi Mu from Auburn, which is an awesome Phi Mu chapter. If ya'll were me, what would you do?
Thanks!
-VSUPhiMu
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