Thinking of Rushing Again !
Hi! I wrote on here a few months ago when I was going through formal rush. I ended up going to my house on bid day but after an hour there I just didn't feel comfortable, and I ended up dropping it. It was just a really stressful time since we hold ours the week before school starts, I am a freshman, and I was stuck with a really bad roomie so I had a lot of things on my mind. Well, now I am in the process of transferring schools for other reasons, and I was wondering whether I would be able to rush again since I dropped the house like that before. The thing that really bugged me the last time I went through was that I didn't get into the houses that I really liked, I tried to have an open mind but I just didn't like the houses that asked me back. Personally I think I would be beneficial to any house since I had a 3.8 GPA last semester, an officer in 3 clubs on campus and am a down to earth type person who works hard, so it disappointed me when I didn't get asked back to the houses that I thought believed in that stuff. Enough about the past though! When I went through rush this fall I made sure that everything was perfect with my application, I am a legacy for AGD, AOPi, and KKG so I had recommendations to those houses plus a couple others just because family friends wanted me in their houses. So I don't know what went wrong! I am kind of worried if I go through again, maybe I shouldn't do soo much because I have heard of people not getting into the houses they have recommendations for some odd reason. It is a while until I have to seriously think about it, but even now I am having regretts for not sticking with it because I really want that close sisterhood that sorority life offers.
I have to go, but if anyone has some advice on how it works with dropping a house like that or how I can market myself better the next time around, I would really appreciate it!! Thanks !!
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