I Can't Be A Bitch
AHHHH You guys, I need help. I think I have a being too nice problem. I just hate hurting people's feelings. Anywho, here's the scoop...
This creepy guy asked me out for the fourth time...well, he's not exactly creepy. He's super nice, very smart, sweet, fun...but only in a friendship type of way. I'm not attracted to him in any way, shape, or form. The thought of ever kissing him makes my stomach turn...I just can't find a nice way to let him know that I don't see anything but friendship with him. Saying that just feels like a line to me...and every time I tried that in the past, the guys just totally stopped talking to me after that.
And last time I went out with a guy I had no feelings for I came home in tears because he was such a horrible date. I don't even want to get into that though...it went down as one of the most horrible nights ever.
Anyways, how can I be more mean without being bitchy?
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