Advice Please
hey everyone!
I need your advice about something..My friend is in a sorority at the present moment..when she went through formal she got her 3rd choice not her 1st choice..but she accepted and is overjoyed at her decision now..but there is one thing she wanted me to address to you all for she is not a member of gc.. there are some members in her 1st choice sorority that she would like to hang out with but her fear is that since they didnt invite her back to pref therefore not giving her a bid that they would not want to hang out with her.... a person not even associated with greek life told her not to mingle with other sororities because if they wanted to hang out with her they would have picked her..i know that when ppl arent given bids it doesnt mean that sorority doesnt like them....it is a number of things..but she wanted me to ask all of you since I am pretty new at greek life..so my question is...should she try to make a closer friendship with these girls who go out of their way every day to say hello to her..or should she just keep them as acquaintences..I would really appreciate some feedback on this..thanx..
love in Theta Phi Alpha
Thetaphigrl
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