A Question for the ladies of the NPHC(not for the sensitive)
Ok I HOPE and PRAY that we can all be mature here, but if the moderators of our forum think it's getting "hot in hurr" then I by all means close the thread.
I was looking at some of the other forums and one over on Rho Lane caught my eye. One Lady of Sgrho asked her sorors if it is their fault that they are not more well known. So that got me to thinking:
Is there a competition or jealousy between the larger sororities and the smaller ones? Why is it that if you have more numbers that the typical response is:
"Oh they just have more numbers because it's too easy to join"
"People are just following the trend"
"They don't know about us, so that's why they joined XYZ"
"They have bigger numbers, but we really are a family"
I'm really trying to understand why all the hostility, I hope I get some educated responses.
Much love,
QTE
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