SFs, A question/scenario for you...
You are interested in organization DEF. You have entered college, establashed friendships/associations with many on and off campus. You and your friends/associates enjoy your campus life via parties, extracurricular activities and the like. While learining your friends/associates, you notice (subconsciously) that SOME of their ways, their demeanor is NOT acceptable, yet you really do not express your concern.
Fast forward to preparations for seeking membership into your organization of choice. You hear through the grapevine that you would be a viable asset to the organization, but there is concern that since you associate with "Jane" and "Jane" has an "negative image" (AND YOU TOO KNOW THIS), that you too could also behave negatively. "Birds of a feather flock together"
What would you do in this situation? How would you handle the situation?
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