Give me a sign....

[justhey76]

Ok, this is something that has been bothering me lately about rush. How do you know if a house likes you? I know that the chapters try to be nice and sweet to everyone, so how can you tell if a house actually likes you? I don’t want to just be in love with this house, and just assume that they think I'm the greatest little pnm EVER because they were really sweet to me at the parties, only to find out they hated my guts and totally didn’t think I would fit in with their chapter at all. At the same time, I would hate to drop a house bc I thought they didn’t like me that actually loved me, and I thought I liked too. Does that make sense? I know you cant TELL a girl that she’s going to get a bid or anything like that, but is there some clue, like, the sisters are just getting excited at t he chance of you being a new member or something? Are there ANY clues you can look for (without it being considered dirty rushing) that will help you make the right decisions when listing your chapter choices each night when it comes to bid matching? Like I said, I don’t want to release a house that I liked, or keep a house that doesn’t want me at pref.