Hi! I'm a sophomore and we just got a new batch of freshmen
I got really close with two girls, who also happen to be best friends, and they ranked me first and I ranked them first so I got them as twin littles! This week is big little reveal week so we leave stuff on their desk every morning and the reveal is Sunday.
We have two girls in my PC who are sophomores in the house but are actually seniors, and one of them actually transferred to our university into our house so she doesn't have a big or little or anything here. Today, she came to me in our room and told me that she and one of my littles were pretty close and if she thought she could take a little (Danae) she would have. She then told me that she had told the little the same thing and Danae responded that if she had known that she would have ranked her.
So she came to me, and she was really nice about it, and said that she wanted to possibly adopt/co-big her with me. I told her I was okay with it and we figured out the semantics somewhat, but I'm still really unhappy about it.
I think it was really inconsiderate of her to bring it up half-way through big/little week and ask, when no one told her she couldn't have a little in the first place. I just don't want it to get to a situation where it makes the other town feel weird, or one of us gets left out. Especially since she's graduating this year and once she leaves I'll have to take over as the only big, and that could get weird if she was favored over me.
I'm also stuck paying for everything like t-shirts and crafts for this week when she also gets to claim the title of big. Does anyone have any advice for this whole situation? I don't want to feel disappointed because it's not like I'm losing her completely, I just feel that it's unfair for this person to come along halfway through the week and ask about adopting her.
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