Please help!

[deltajas]

Hey
I was dating someone for about a month before school ended, and long distance all summer. Well about a week and a half ago I went somewhere with an ex, but nothing happened. Anyways I told my bf about it and he broke up with me and had been really rude ever since. I tried to call him and email him to talk, but he says he does not want to talk about it, and not to call him for a while, I really wish he would. Anyway I will probably see him within the next couple of weeks because my sorority and his fratenrnity do a lot of things together, especially for rush. I eamiled him yesterday again and asked if we could talk about it and be friends. He has not responded yet.
So, how do I handle it when I see him? And why is he being like this if he knows he will see me? Has anything like this happened to anyone before? If so please give me some ideas. I would really like to talk about it with him but he is being soooo stubborn

[dzsaigirl]

As much as you may not want to admit it, perhaps this was just the ticket that he needed to get out of the relationship. Guys are wimps sometimes and can't just break up with you. They will wait until they see a window of opportunity to blame it on something you did rather than actually tell you they don't want to be together. So I am saying, maybe there was more to the break up than you seeing your ex one time

I hope everything turns out okay. Just try not to bombard him because then you will seem overly eager, and if he is treating you bad/ignoring you, you deserve better

[deltajas]

Hey there
That is exactly what my sisters are saying, and they are not too happy with him right now. Both myself and them think if that was the case he should have just talked to me about it, and I would have been fine. It's kind of weird though because over the summer when we would talk I would constatly suggest to him that we see other people or break up until he got back, I thought that would work better he would always tell me not to do that over the phone. I know that is why I am so upset the way he handled this, so he was oviously not be truthful and leading me on. I will keep you posted after I see him. Thanks hun.