Is Change Possible?!?!

[bgsugirlie]

Here's my newest predicament...


There is this guy who I have sort of liked for awhile. We talk on the phone a lot, he's a great person...we don't exactly have a lot in common but I really enjoy his company.


His background:
He claims that he is ready for a relationship now. However, I find that slightly hard to believe because he is all about random hook-ups. I don't even want to imagine the # of girls he has slept with.


My question:
Do you think it is possible that he has changed and he is ready for a relationship?


***The only thing I am worried about is his dirtiness factor. He has been with ALOT of people...it would be a miracle if he didn't have an STD. Also I am scared to risk losing our friendship if things don't work out. I would be a lot more comfortable taking things slow but I don't think he is ready to have a relationship that isn't based on sex.

Any insight or advice?