need advice please
well, i'm not really sure where this belongs actually, but oh well. i have a question for anyone whose boyfriend (or girlfriend) is greek, here it is: i am the type of person who just cannot stand secrets being kept from me, it drives me up a wall. my boyfriend's in a fraternity so as you all know he can't tell me about a good amount of stuff they do. it gets to me so much cause we're so close but i still can't know some stuff. i don't bug him about it or anything, and i don't want to. i know he'd tell me if i was completely insistent, but i don't want to do that, i respect the fraternity and its traditions.. you know? so.. i was just wondering if anybody else has gone through this... it's tough for me, i could use some advice! thank you..
|