Men and the games they play

[aggieAXO]

So I was out last night with my friend and her cousin whom I had met on New Years Eve. My friend has been trying to set me up with him months before New Years but my schedule was too hectic. Anyways, we did not hook up on new Years-he is a nice guy but I am not that attracted to him to go out of my way and why should I-he needs to ask me out.

Fast forward to last night. My friend came up to me and told me her cousin has a huge crush on me-I said great tell him to ask me out b/c I am tired of making the first move. So after she talked with me about him I went back to the table where he was at and he suddenly got very quiet. I was like-ok whatever. So I left the table again and went outside to talk with my other group of friends. About 10 minutes later I looked over to the tables by the wall and he was sitting there staring at me. I motioned for him to come over and with a cocky look on his face he said-"no you come here". I said-"no you come here". Anyways I got tired of it and just continued to talk with my friends.

I later asked my friend what is up with her cousin and why he was being that way and she said-he likes to play games. I told her that if he really likes me then he needs to ask me out. I also said that I am 30 years old and I don't play games anymore and I refuse to ask men out (esp. ones that I am not that attracted too). I guess in reality I could careless if he asked me out but I did not tell her this.

So my question is mainly to guys-why do you play these frickin games?