Ex's and their weddings

KarenC725 · #1 02-08-2002, 09:03 AM

***Warning- long story***

Why is this my life? I guess to understand, you need a little background. I dated T from 15-22. Then I finally gave up and moved on. My boyfriend dated H in high school (she always had a thing for him. she's even told me that i'm not good enough for him but that's another story) and R for 5 years. R was a complete bitch and broke up with him without telling him. He called one day to see what time he should pick her up at her dorm and she said her new boyfriend was driving home to meet her parents! T just slept with every girl that walked by.

So that is our history, obviously neither one of us had really good luck and there were some harsh and VERY unresolved feelings for our exes.

I found out in July that T is getting married in April. God help her but whatever. He was still telling me in Sept. that he could get me back. R and H are both getting married this summer. Open the local paper today, both R and H's wedding announcements are in the paper, right next to each other.

My problem is that I can't even mention that my ex is getting married and I had to listen to him go on about how R and H hate each other so much and now are on the same page blah blah blah.

This is doing NOTHING but annoying me. DAMMIT, (ok, harsh sentenc here) I WANT A RING. Sorry, had to scream. I guess in a selfish way, I'm pissed because I know all three exes and feel that they shouldn't be the ones to have all the "happily ever after" crap because (and this is not bias, anyone who knows them feels this way)they don't deserve it and aren't nice people.

Why are all of them getting married this year? Are they trying to give me a complex?

DGPhoney · #2 02-08-2002, 12:16 PM

Aww KarenC I am so sorry

I understand though. I think it might be going around or something. Cause this past summer, my ex got married, and wow, he got married to my little sister. Now , my friend her boyfriend broke up a few months ago, and now he's getting married and moving to Ireland. So I think the whole Ex's doing Crudy things and being Happy is Something that is just going around now. So it does suck but what can ya do , ya know. I don't think it will give you a complex if you don't dwell on it, but thats easier said then done. But you know, kinda old, what goes around comes around. So if they are happy now, and did the crappy things that they have done will come back at them and then they 'll be the ones upset , when your off living your "Happy Ever After Life "
~ Good Luck~
DGP~Honey~

KarenC725 · #3 02-08-2002, 12:22 PM

Couldn't they have timed these things better?

Thanks for the kind words. It's just frustrating. I guess it will just make things that much sweeter when we have our "fairy tale" but I have the patience of a 2 year old sometimes!