I'm starting to hate my roommate and we're in the same sorority...

Skgreen1283 · #1 09-28-2014, 05:18 PM

I am a senior with 4 roommates in an apartment. I get along fine with three, but there's one who I absolutely cannot STAND.

We were close last year and she helped me through a couple rough patches. But, we moved in together this year. She's so passive aggressive, and when she does confront me about issues she just attacks me so I immediately go on the defensive. She belittles things that I am interested in. I've told her that sometimes things she says offends me and that I will speak up when they do, but at this point, I don't want to do that because I don't want to save our friendship. I'm not the type of person who will cling to a relationship that isn't working anymore.

I think that she's upset because we were close last year and now we're not, but based on how she is treating me, I don't know if she really wants to salvage this friendship either. Honestly, at this point, I really feel like it's beyond repair anyway. But we are both still friends with our other roommates, and we're all in the same sorority. I'm not sure if she talks shit about me behind my back, although earlier I heard her whispering to one of my other roommates that I might have driven home drunk (for the record, I walked home with friends because I was drunk, but she clearly thinks very highly of me). I try to limit who I talk about her with to my big, who graduated and isn't friends with her anyway, and one of my best friends who I don't live with.

I basically am so mad, and with this being senior year and me trying to figure out what I'm going to do next year, I'm really too stressed out to deal with her bullshit. I don't want to be her friend anymore. I'm just done. BUT, at the same time, we are in the same sorority and we are still friends with our other roommates. I'm trying to just be cordial because I know I'll never have to see her again when the year is up, but she's making it really difficult. Have any of you dealt with this?? I'm really not sure what to do anymore.