I hear you! I was my chapter's Panhel rep, and had things to report back to my chapter, so - well, I learned to write fast. These days, I'd probably bring my laptop to meetings, as I type faster than I write.
I had dedicated binders for each of my classes. I loaded them up with plenty of looseleaf paper for notes. If the professor or TA was good enough to hole punch any handouts, so much the better - otherwise I just hole-punched them myself when I got back to my dorm. I also had a binder for each of my extracurriculars, including one for the sorority.
And I hear you on being married being a job in and of itself.

But I don't have a binder for him
As for my schedule, everything went into my Palm Pilot (remember those?

). Now everything goes in my iPhone. If it's not in the phone it doesn't exist.