Dear Sweet Baby Jesus

tigergirl14 · #1 08-12-2014, 06:32 AM

So as some of you may know, I was suppose to rush this fall at a big SEC school. However, I unfortunately had to withdraw from the university because of financial reasons and am now stuck at home for a semester at my community college. (Insert sarcastic "Yippie") I mean it's not really a big deal but still a part of me is super sad. Knowing that I would be rushing in 5 days just tears me up in side. I befriended so many girls that I was suppose to be rushing with and now seeing all their move in posts on Facebook is literally driving me crazy. I know God has a reason for me staying home this semester, it's just so hard to accept sometimes especially when I see so many of my friends going off. As far as greek life goes, I know I can still partake in informal recruitment this spring, so it's not like I'm never going to be able to rush, it's just going to take a little longer then expected! Sorry I'm venting all of this to y'all but I had to vent somewhere and I thought this would be the perfect place!

amIblue? · #2 08-12-2014, 08:20 AM

I'm sorry. I know this is disappointing for you; it's really hard when you feel left out. Chin up and hang in there. You'll get your turn!

WhiteDaisy128 · #3 08-12-2014, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by tigergirl14

So as some of you may know, I was suppose to rush this fall at a big SEC school. However, I unfortunately had to withdraw from the university because of financial reasons and am now stuck at home for a semester at my community college. (Insert sarcastic "Yippie") I mean it's not really a big deal but still a part of me is super sad. Knowing that I would be rushing in 5 days just tears me up in side. I befriended so many girls that I was suppose to be rushing with and now seeing all their move in posts on Facebook is literally driving me crazy. I know God has a reason for me staying home this semester, it's just so hard to accept sometimes especially when I see so many of my friends going off. As far as greek life goes, I know I can still partake in informal recruitment this spring, so it's not like I'm never going to be able to rush, it's just going to take a little longer then expected! Sorry I'm venting all of this to y'all but I had to vent somewhere and I thought this would be the perfect place!

In your time home, I'd get a job and save, save, save...Greek Life isn't cheap on top of tuition, books, and fees! Good luck being patient. I know it'd be really hard when your expectations were different.

TriDeltaSallie · #4 08-12-2014, 09:40 AM

I can imagine how disappointing it is. The best thing you can do is ace your classes and save money. You'll put yourself in the best position you can for the future.

DeltaBetaBaby · #5 08-12-2014, 10:01 AM

GET OFF OF FACEBOOK. Really, take a break for a while.

ASTalumna06 · #6 08-12-2014, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

GET OFF OF FACEBOOK. Really, take a break for a while.

Did I miss something? ......

ETA: Nevermind. I see why you said this now.

KDCat · #7 08-12-2014, 12:41 PM

Hang in there. Your day will come.

Katmandu · #8 08-12-2014, 12:44 PM

I am sorry! It's disappointing to have your plans broken at the last minute. Use the time to put yourself in a good spot and learn the gifts of resiliency and flexibility. Get outstanding grades. Find a great activity on campus or in the community and throw yourself into it. Save money! Make new friends in your new setting rather than watching your old friends live the life you thought you were going to have this fall. That won't help you.

If you transfer and participate in recruitment in the spring or in the fall as a sophomore, sororities will be looking at your college resume and grades, not your HS so much, so make sure they have something good to look at.

It's easy for an outsider to say this, but don't let disappointment or envy take root. That a bad road to travel and hard to exit.

SoCalGirl · #9 08-13-2014, 12:51 AM

Try to stay active on campus, even if you'll only be there one semester.

Once you transfer and go through recruitment it'll look better to have fresh items on your resume. It's amazing how fast the "what have you done lately" mind set can take hold.

tootiepie2 · #10 08-13-2014, 05:37 PM

I wanted to add, Don't get to discouraged. My daughter just graduated from LSU and she said that it is possible to get bids as a sophomore. Most sororities usually have a few sophomores in their class. Just make sure you have good grades, and are involved in other things on campus. Also make sure you stay in touch with your friends who pledge. Don't feel intimidated by their new friends. Most girls who get bids as sophomores are friends with sisters. Also watch your reputation. I am not saying that all the girls is sororities are perfectly behaved but even if you see them getting crazy in the bars DO NOT join in. It may seem hypocritical of them but they will cut girls with bad reps. And it can be pretty expensive so if you think money will be a problem start saving now! Good luck.

Dnpgopenguins · #11 08-13-2014, 06:48 PM

Look into Phi Theta Kappa on the campus of you community college. It is an honors society of two year colleges. There are many schools that will give good scholarships to members as well as general scholarships through the organization. Also, some chapters are really involved with community service, ect, so that might help with a resume or application who you do transfer.
Good luck, community colleges are not that bad. 8)