Politest Way To Say No

[Kevlar281]

Not to mention any names and I hope by what I say it isn’t made obvious but I have a question about dirty rushing. Rush is coming up at U of H and a lot of pre-rush events/parties are going on. One GLO in particular after asking me what other Fraternities I had an interest in has really put the hard press on me. Whenever I go out with them I feel like I am cornered (being pressured). I more or less know what GLO I want to go with already but I still want to make sure I check out everyone else before I make such a huge commitment. Anyways like I said it’s to the point where I feel uncomfortable to go out with them. Which I am sure sounds pretty lame considering I am a guy but maybe I am just used to the relaxed atmosphere of the other GLO that they seem to have a problem with. It’s still pre-rush so I would hate to start declining another GLOs offers to come out to events but I feel like I am at that point. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.