*Grab lunch/dinner together on campus.
*Take her with you to your favorite secret study spot.
*Attend another organization's philanthropy.
*Attend a campus event (sporting, arts, etc.) together.
*Take her with you when you go on a Target run.
*Go to the gym or take a fitness class together.
*Bake cookies or craft together.
*Hit the thrift store to find cheap decor to repurpose or outfits for your next theme party.
*Meet up to watch a tv show or movie you both like.
These are all things I did with the woman who eventually became my big and/or the women who eventually became my Littles.
I know on some campuses it becomes a trend to try to do cool and over the top things to try to impress a prospective little. The real goal though is to build authentic relationships and we don't spend all of our time trying to do cool/over the top things. Most new members are just craving connectivity and the opportunity to build friendships. So do what you'd do with your other sisters.
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