Why did you choose your sorority/fraternity?

[newbie]

Hello,

I'm in High School and am very intersetd in Greek life I was just wondering if you could share your reasons for joining your particular sorority/fraternity! And, how did you know it was the right one for you, considering that during Rush you are meeting members who are complete strangers? Thank you!

[LSUTigerGirl]

Hey Newbie!!!

It's so good to hear you're interested in greek life. I chose my sorority, Sigma Alpha, because of my major. Sigma Alpha is a professional and social sorority for women pursuing careers in agriculture. Don't get me wrong though...we have non ag majors as well. I can honestly say that during high school I had no intentions of going Greek. I had heard all of the stereotypical stories about Greeks. Once I got to college though and saw how awesome the girls were...I couldn't help but rush. I'm really glad that I decided to go Greek because it was probably the best thing I could have done. Not only am I making friendships that will last a lifetime but I'm making contacts in the business world. Well that's my story. I wish you the best of luck with the rest of high school.

Keep us posted!!!



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[33girl]

I chose my sorority because it was one of the smaller ones on campus - I wanted to know my sisters and not feel like a number. Also because the majority of my sisters were about a million miles away from the "rich beautiful snob" stereotype. We were all so different, yet we were able to come together and build extremely strong bonds.

If at rush - you meet strangers and feel like you've just met long lost friends - that is the place for you!

[mckeerach]

I also joined Sigma Alpha. I'm an Agbusiness Major. When i was in High School i did not want to join a sorority, b/c of stories i had heard. Sigma Alpha is a Professional Agriculture Sorority. We all share a common intrest. My chaper is very small we have 9 members. Although some stories you hear about greeks may be true don't beleive all of them. Find out if there is a sorority for your major and go to the meetings if your not interested find a social/general sorority or start one of your own.

[newbie]

Thanks everyoine for your stories and advice!! I will definitely keep you all posted My sister was a KD (she graduated last year from college), and she has told me all these stories of how much she loves her sorority, and what her sorority did for the community So despite the negative views the media has on Greek life, I know that Greek life is definitely a good thing!

I cannot wait fro College and Rush to start hehee I just wanted to ask you guys because my sister is extremely biased about KD, and I don't want to disappoit her if for some reason I don't join Kappa Delta!

Keep the stories coming, thanks! Have a great weekend everyone!!

P.S. Does Sigma Alpha count as a professional sorority as opposed to a social one? Thank you!

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[killer]

When I went through Formal Rush I was never intending to ever go greek. I just wanted to get a chance to meet some new people. Rush also gave me a chance to keep my mind off of some horrible stuff that was going on in my life at the time. Well by the end of the week I felt so at home with this one group of girls that I knew I had to become one of their sisters. They were also teriffic with helping me to feel better. To this day I know that I made the right choice and that I am exactly where I belong.

[KMOT]

Are there any BGLO members who want to share their reasons for choosing your respective organizations?

[equeen]

As a high school student and college freshman, I was not interested in rushing - what I knew about greek life was limited to the stereotypes.

When I arrived at college, I decided to look into the sorority experience, after hearing a lot of positive comments about sisterhood from women I respected, and whose POV I valued. I educated myself about the histories of women's fraternities and sororities, and looked into a couple sororities that were on campus. I was really impressed by the ideals of the organizations I looked into, and I loved meeting the members.

Yet, there was something essential that I was looking for in a sisterhood that I had not found yet in any sorority. Almost by chance, I found out about Alpha Sigma Kappa - Women in Technical Studies a social sorority for women pursuing degrees in a variety of scientific and technical fields.

I realized that forming a bond with women who I could interact with in classes, as well who shared my professional goals, was important to me. I knew it was right for me because the members I met placed the greatest importance on excelling academically and professionally, and they were supportive of each other as friends as well as professionals. The women I met from the Alpha Chapter and the National Board were all strangers, but there was an instant connection between us - I remember having to run off to class a short time after welcoming them to campus for the first time - and they not only understood, but they made sure that I went!

Ultimately, I helped found the Beta Chapter of Alpha Sigma Kappa - Women in Technical Studies at the University of Oklahoma.

Best wishes with your rush experience!

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[dzrose93]

Hi Newbie,

The main reason that I joined Delta Zeta was because the sisters seemed to be so genuine during Rush. I was a little shy and didn't know hardly anything about sororities when I went to college. It was actually my mother's suggestion that I go through Rush so that I could meet people.

At the Rush parties, the DZ girls made me feel extremely comfortable. It wasn't that I didn't like the other sororities - I did. I was actually a little torn between DZ and one other house right up until Pref Night. But after the preference party, I knew that I was going to be a DZ or nothing.

It's hard to describe how I knew that DZ was the right choice for me. I think that what impressed me the most was that the sisters were all individuals - they each had their own interests. Some were athletic and outgoing, some were shy and reserved, some were brainy, some were social butterflies. I knew that I wouldn't have to "conform" in order to feel welcome in Delta Zeta.

I hope this helps you out, Newbie. Oh, and about your sister being a KD. My big sister's mother was a member of another sorority, so she put a ton of pressure on her to go with that group. Instead, my big sister followed her heart and went DZ. She has never regretted it. Her mother, after meeting the Delta Zeta sisters for herself, agreed that my big sister made a wonderful choice.

Good luck!
Carrie

[PrincessELG]

I have dreamed of being a Lady of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated for a very long time.

The reason is the organization in itself is comprised of powerfull women of a prodominantly Black background and that have taken thier actions in the communtiy to a new level. A level of true commitment to furthering the black community is astounding.

Another reason why I wanted to join was because of the legacy that these women have laid down as true Ladies of society and coporate America. I felt that I to emulate these characteristics and that I would be at home in this sisterhood. And I was right.

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[Chi_Omega2000Chick]

The reason I picked Chi Omega, is that Chi Omega was founded at my school, University of Arkansas in Fayetteville. Chi Omega is the largest soroity with great members and wonderful alumni members. I encourage you to rush Chi Omega because truly you end up with life long friends to the end.

[MaryMayXO]

I chose Chi Omega for numerous reasons. I was new to my school and did not know anyone, which is why I decided to rush. During rush, I met so many wonderful people at each of the houses but Chi O stuck out in my mind. I could just see the strong sisterhood that the girls had and I knew that I wanted to be part of something so special. I am graduating in 2 months and can honestly say that college has been everything I have wanted and more, and Chi O has so much to do with that!!

Good luck with rush!

Love-
MAY

[squirrly]

When I came to college, I only knew 4 or 5 people on my campus, so I decided to go through Recruitment to meet people. Some of the women in my family were pressuring me to join a particular organization, but I was honestly assuming that I would not join anything at all. (I did, and it's the best thing that has happened to me!) Our recruitment is only 4 days long, so it is VERY difficult to determine where you belong. You just have to follow your heart and have faith that you will end up where you were meant to be.

I will say this, though - it is better to go into recruitment NOT knowing other people's opinions of the chapters on your campus, because it lets you go where you want without worrying about trying to get into the most popular organization. At the same time, remember that every chapter wants to put its best foot forward during recruitment, and that it is your responsibility to look past the surface and see what those women are really all about. . . and then decide if that's the kind of person you are also.


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[pirate00]

I came to choose Alpha Phi Omega because their Cardinal Principles of Leadership, Friendship, and Service is what I hold precious.

[BFulton]

Originally posted by newbie:

P.S. Does Sigma Alpha count as a professional sorority as opposed to a social one? Thank you!

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Hi Newbie,

Not sure how you mean "count as," but we are considered a professional GLO. However, unlike many professional GLOs, we do not allow dual membership in Sigma Alpha and a social fraternity/sorority. Hope this helps! Good luck in your Greek life!