Daughter went thru Rush at a SEC school

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Hi Everyone, I want to make sure that this is not a complaint, just trying to get an understanding of "how" it works. My daughter went all the way thru round 3 and then was not called back for prefs. I know she is my daughter and I am partial, but I just don't get it. One of the tops students at her school with a list of accomplishments and very outgoing and wanted to always be in a sorority. Had a few recs and didn't get a bid. What happens when someone so genuine, outgoing and the perfect student doesn't get a bid. She is very social, smart and mature. She was devastated and wondered what happened. I am posting this for those of you who didn't get bids also. We have had to regroup and this is a huge set back for a freshman at college with everything else going on the first week. That being said, she is strong and will succeed even if she isn't in a sorority. Please all of you think about the girls for whatever reason do not get in and if you are in a sorority remember that there are a lot of sisters that would love to be part of a sisterhood.