Compatible? If not, I don't want to be XYZ...

[AKA2D '91]

Okay you all. I saw something and I was like, huh? So, I need you all, ALL of you to help me out.

If you are interested in a organization, you go to their stuff on campus, you know what the ORGANIZATION is about, you see what the chapter does on your campus. You then meet members of the chapter on your campus. The thing is, YOU ARE NOT "FEELING" THEM, or not "feeling" some of them (personal issue(s)). Do you allow that to determine if you want to pursue membership with that organization by way of that chapter? Isn't it about the ORGANIZATION? Can one not overlook the diversity if you will, of its members and focus on the organization?

The thing is, you are only on your campus for a few semesters, anyway. After that, you carry on with your work as a member of XYZ. Then, what if you go to another organization and you like it because you "feel" the members, but they (THE ORGANIZATION) are not doing jack you know what? Then what? Are you fulfilled?

I remember (from hearing stories from older Sorors) and kind of like in our situation, who you ended up with, those were your "people". If you didn't "feel" or were not "compatible" with someone SO WHAT...you did "feel" them, you know!