Has your org. made you into its B****?

As a newbie in the greek world, I have watched people in various organizations in my community run themselves thin for their orgs. I have listened to people complain about how much they are being asked to do and how the doing is interfering with their families and their jobs. I have seen men forsake their relationships to be at fraternity meeting. To be at a meeting on Valentine's Day instead of being with your significant other? Come on now, are you for real. You know, I had heard of this, but I did not think that grown men and women would have their priorities this screwed up. Anything for your organization, right? At some point you have to say no.


What are your thoughts?