Tips on Affiliating with a new chapter
Hi all! So, I had a few questions on affiliating with a new chapter of my sorority and was wondering if anyone could give me any tips on what to do, as I don't want to step on anyone's toes with the new pledge class just getting here and what not. I have contacted the president and have signed up for intermurals and am awaiting our first chapter. Let me give you some background though. At the school I came from, I loved the chapter despite it being a "lower mid tier" (I know we're not supposed to use this tier nonsense but this will make sense and I'm not disclosing the chapter or school), at the school I'm going to now (we've had three days of school thus far) the chapter is known as being top tier and has a reputation for only accepting the prettiest, thinnest girls on campus and as being pretty stuck up. This scares the pants off of me. I know stereotypes are silly and that a generalization cannot be true for 250 plus girls but still...very scary. Anywho, I have yet to visit the house and I'm not really sure how I go about this without it being super awkward. Like I said, I really want to affiliate-I'm just not sure how I go about getting to know these people. Also, my organization does not have reveals or vote on the transfers or anything like that. We just fill out a form. Thanks so much for your help and sorry about the entire novel.
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