Question???

[In Need of Advice]

This is for anyone.

What would you do....

You are a freshman you see all these organizations to join and you decide you want to go greek, but you dont know any of them in the certain NPHC org. that you are interested in.

So you learn and research more and so the next year you and two of your friends move in with a person in that particular org that you want to be in. So you think that everything is cool and you get to know her and then realise that you dont like her.

So you stay away from her while she draws the friends that you move in with in her deceit and drama that is very constant in her life. Meanwhile your friends are not there and you are alone because you have distanced yourself away from them.

Then you find out that girl in the org of your choice starts talking about you behind your back and the more you learn about what she says about you (while she is smiling in your face mind you)the angrier you get.

All of a sudden christmas break rolls around and you and her (the one in the org) are the only ones in the dorm. Then she starts talking about the friends that were once yours behind their back, but at the same time you two are getting closer as friends.

Then the break ends and everyone is back and you and the friends (that were once yours) have a discussion to find out that the girl in the org was at the root of the problems that you and your friends had.

Then we all turned against her until she moved out and now everything is getting worse and it doesnt look good for you to join that org because she blackballed your name in this chapter.

My question is what do you do....you cant see yourself in any other org. and you know that org is the only one that you want to join.

Given the circumstances do you think about another org?

Confused to the Fullest