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Old 03-29-2009, 02:34 AM
aspire&inquire aspire&inquire is offline
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We're not bonding :-(

First and foremost, I'd like to thank you in advance for your time and consideration.


I come humbly before you as an Aspirant. I am undergoing a process in which another Aspirant and myself are expected to develop a sisterly bond. We have been left to decide how and when we will do so, but frankly, it isn't happening. It doesn't bother me that we are busy women with very different schedules. It doesn't really bother me that we seem to have distinct personalities. However, it does bother me that we are expected to develop a rapport, and for some reason haven't been able to do so.


I understand that becoming a member of a sorority doesn't automatically ensure that you'll become the best of friends with other members. I also understand that the purpose of joining a sorority supercedes any personal and superficial desires. I just don't know what to do. We've come so far, and it'd be such a shame to just breeze through without the slightest presence of comraderie between us. Do I continue to reach out or let it be?


If nothing else, I appreciate the opportunity to vent.
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