I HATE MY LINE SISTERS

sickofthesefolks · #1 02-28-2001, 03:15 AM

I HAVE BEEN ONLINE FOR ABOUT THREE WEEKS NOW
(PURSUING A BGLO)AND I HATE MY LINE SISTERS I MEAN WITH A PASSION YOU CAN NOT BELIEVE THEY ARE SO TRIFLING AND LAZY I SWEAR. THEY DO NOT KNOW SHYT AND THEN THEY GET UPSET WITH ME BECAUSE I DO....I REMEMBER BACK WHEN I WANTED TO GET THIS POINT I THOUGHT BEING ONLINE WOULD BE ONE OF THE MOST FUN(IN THE END ANYWAY) THINGS IN THE WORLD TO DO I MEAN I THOUGHT I WOULD MEET NEW PEOPLE MAKE NEW FRIENDS SO ON AND SO FORTH BUT OH MY *%$#!*$
I CAN NOT WAIT TO GET THIS OVER WITH WHEN AND IF WE CROSS THE BURNING SANDS I PROMISE YOU THE ONLY CONTACT I WILL HAVE WITH THEM IS FOR CHAPTER BUSINESS NO FRIENDSHIPS WILL COME OUT OF THIS FROM MY END...........HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO ANYONE. I AM READY TO SCREAM AND IF DID NOT WANT TO BE IN THIS SORORITY SO BAD I WOULD QUIT JUST BECAUSE OF THOSE DUMB B******! I'M SORRY THIS MAY SOUND CRAZY TO SOME BUT I AM NO CLICKING WITH THESE WOMEN THIS WHOLE CONCEPT OF WE ARE "ONE" IS NOT FLYING WITH ME!! I HATE THE FACT THAT THEY ARE SO LAZY AND DUMB TILL THEY DO NOT KNOW THEIR SHYT SO WE HAVE TO STAND IN THE LINE AND I HAVE TO PRETEND LIKE I DO NOT KNOW TO I HATE THAT SHYT......I KNOW MY SHYT AND HAVE BEEN TRYING TO HELP THEM STUPID HOES KNOW THEIRS BUT I CAN NOT FORCE THEM TO LEARN IT YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? THEY WANT SAY I AM TRYING TO SHOW THEM UP HOW THE HELL CAN I BE TRYING TO SHOW THEM SHYT IT WOULDN'T BE HARD MY DAUGHTER KNOW MORE ABOUT THE SORORITY THATN THEY DO I HATE THEM I SWEAR WHEN THIS IS OVER..........................ITS OVER!I DO NOT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO AT THIS POINT BUT TRY AND WAIT IT OUT WHEW

NUPE4LIFE · #2 02-28-2001, 08:41 AM

When will people learn not to post crap like this on the web. DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION, DISCRETION!

And one last thing. I wouldn't want anyone for a sister/brother who called me a stupid hoe. Hopefully through greek life you can meet people who will become some of your closes friends. However, that's not always the case. But still their is a basic level of respect here. I wouldn't dare want you in my organization if you can't even respect on the basic brotherhood/sis'hood level. Think about that. And don't put your business out here for the world to see.

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gphi2k · #3 02-28-2001, 09:53 AM

Um, far be it from me to be a cynic, but, does anyone else here think the person who posted thhis thread is full of it? I find it VERY hard to believe (call me jaded, call me ignorant) that this person is serious. Calling your line sisters hoes? Common now. You MUST be joking. No girl would put herself through the pledge process with b**tchy girls who didn't know their 'shyt' if they hated it that much. I dunno...I smell a perpetuator of a heated thread here. Considering that's her first post to date. Fishy I tell you.

Leslie

loviest95 · #4 02-28-2001, 12:51 PM

Well if you are for real--'sickofthesefolks"
I say this your Big Sisters have not taught you the meaning of DISCRETION
There are always weak links in chain and you have to hold them up

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Rain Man · #5 02-28-2001, 02:30 PM

Please keep in mind folx, that sickofthesefolks may not be pledging a NPHC organization. It may be an independent or NGA (National Greek Alliance) BGLO. Or it could be a brand new one none of us knows about.

Nonetheless the discretion thing should remain intact regardless of org.

My .25 cents
RM

Asia2000 · #6 02-28-2001, 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by loviest95:
There are always weak links in chain and you have to hold them up

I'd say we've found the weak link! This has to be bogus because I am in my educational process as we speak (type?) and there is NO way I could survive any of this without the undying support of and from my beautiful Pledge Sisters!!

If this is true, you should reevaluate your choice of organization as this organization you apparently want so badly feels that these "lazy" "hoes" that "don't know their shyt" deserve the same letters you are working for. Since this organization wants women that you obviously have NO respect for, is this something you truly want to be a part of . . . Just my POV

MaMaBuddha · #7 02-28-2001, 06:27 PM

whoa whoa whoa...

sickofthesefolks....i think you need to RETHINK about pledging, you may not be worthy of your organization.

First of all....

as my greek brother and fraternity brother NUPE4LIFE said....DISCRETION is the key.

Second...WTF!!!! you should not be up in here discussing how you dislike your LS's.

Third...you just called your LS'a HOES....WTF!!!!

i just hope it isn't one of the divine 9....

but as soror6 stated....let me find my 13 feet pole!!!

and stay away from you.

hmmmmmmmmmmm...i remember the old school days of discretion...

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sickofthesefolks · #8 02-28-2001, 06:38 PM

WHATEVER YALL CAN SAY WHAT YALL WANT TO SAY .......... AND OH YES I AM VERY FOR REAL. I DO NOT HAVE TO LIKE THEM, EVERY PERSON IN AN ORGANIZATION DOES NOT LIKE EACH OTHER AND I JUST HAPPEN TO NOT LIKE THESE GIRLS SO WHATEVER........AND ITS THEM THAT DO NOT KNOW THEIR INFO THREE WEEKS INTO IT THIS NOT ME I KNOW EVERY THING I NEED TO KNOW I AM NOT WORRIED ABOUT CROSSING OVER BUT WHAT I WOULD NOT WANT IS SOME LAZY ASS WOMEN IN MY CHAPTER OR MY ORGANIZATION AND THAT IS JUST WHAT THEY ARE AND SINCE YALL DO NOT KNOW ME OR THE ORGANIZATION I AM PLEDGING THEN I AM USING DISCRETION.......I CAN SAY WHAT I WANT THATS THE PURPOSE OF ME COMING ON HERE TO LET OUT MY ANGER YALL DO NOT KNOW ME OR THEM SO IF YO DON'T LIKE IT THEN DO NOT POST..................YALL NEED TO QUIT LIKE YALL ABSOLUTELY LOVE EVERYONE IN YOUR ORGANIZATION PLEASE YALL ALWAYS FRONTIN ON THIS BOARD YALL NEED TO QUIT I MEAN REALLY ...............ANYWAY THEY LUCKY I DON'T CALL THEM STUPID HOES AND B******* TO THEIR FACES, BELIEVE THAT. I AM NOT DISRESPECTING THE ORGANZATION BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT A PART OF IT YET AND NEITHER AM I.....I CAN'T HELP WHO I AM PUT ONLINE WITH AND I CAN'T HELP THAT I DO NOT LIKE THEM. I DO NOT NEED THEM I KNOW WHAT I NEED TO KNOW AND IT PISSES ME OFF THAT WE ALL NEED TO KNOW IT OR IT DOESN'T MATTER, I CAN NOT MAKE THEM LEARN AND I HATE THAT THEIR NOT LEARNING AFFECTS ME........THEN THEY GET UPSET AND WHINE ABOUT EVERY DAM THING I MEAN GIVE ME A BREAK I CAN NOT WAIT UNTIL THIS IS OVER SO I CAN GET THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM! THATS JUST HOW I FEEL I WILL HAVE THOUSANDS OF OTHER SORORS(AND I KNOW PLENTY OF THEM ALREADY WHO I AM TIGHT WITH)SO SCREW THEM I MEAN IF I SEE THEM AFTER WORDS OF COURSE I WOULD NEVER LET ANYBODY SEE THE TENSION BUT THEY KNOW AND I KNOW THAT WE HAVE ANYTHING BUT BONDED DURING THIS.............WE ALL KNOW EVERY SOROR IS NOT A FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sickofthesefolks · #9 02-28-2001, 06:43 PM

oh yeah and trust me my big sisters have no idea about our ill feelings i mean i know better than that. i am going through the process because i want to be apart of this particular organization i do not have to like my linesisters to be deserving or to want to be apart of the org and i be dam if i let them get in my way.........i love my big sisters and others i know in this organization i just do not like them i mean dam one of the girls did not even know how many founders were in the org. and then another one could not name ONE of the founders give me a break how can they wnat to be in a org that they do not know shyt about?............................................ .YES IT IS A DIVINE NINE ORG.........................................
AND WHO THE HELL SAID I HAVE NEVER POSTED HERE BEFORE "DISCRETION" IS THE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AKA2D '91 · #10 02-28-2001, 06:45 PM

*shaking my head*

I hope everything works out for this sista and her linesistas...AND the organization...

How are you all going to be able to "work" together for the good of the ORGANIZATION?
How are you all going to be able to "bring" others in? DAYUM....WHEW!

OH MY GOODNESS!

*shaking my head*

DST Love · #11 02-28-2001, 07:03 PM

I don't know about everyone up in here, but you couldn't pay me to use the word Soror while I was on line or anytime before I was so fortunate to make it in. Maybe that's not important to others, but it sure stuck out to me.

Secondly, I understand wanting to vent and feeling like no one will know who you are, but you just never know what people may find out. So you are not using discretion. Sure everyone is not going to get along with everyone. That goes for family, a circle of friends, sororities/fraternities, etc. However, you never put your business out there to people on the outside. Just because most of us here are in Greek organizations, we are still outsiders to the organization and/or chapter you're trying to come through.

And what if someone did find out what org and chapter you're talking about? That's putting your chapter as well as the organization on blast. That sure doesn't sound very respectful or discreet.

[This message has been edited by DST Love (edited February 28, 2001).]

Serenity · #12 02-28-2001, 07:16 PM

Hmmmmmmm....three weeks in and still using "I"?

But I digress.....

Quote:

*shaking my head*
I hope everything works out for this sista and her linesistas...AND the organization...
How are you all going to be able to "work" together for the good of the ORGANIZATION?
How are you all going to be able to "bring" others in? DAYUM....WHEW!
OH MY GOODNESS!
*shaking my head*

My sentiments exactly.....

DELTABRAT · #13 02-28-2001, 07:26 PM

sickofthesefolks:

You have a problem. I don't care what anyone thinks about me saying that. I DO happen to love all of my Sands!

For you to say whatever and "if" I see them then I will not let others see the tension?!?! Basically uyou are saying that you would not want to see your line sisters again, but if you do then...

That's crazy to me.

As AKA2D '91 said...what will you do when time to bring others in?

Then, don't say you don't care what we think. You are the one who brought your drama to us AND asked for advice. It's hard to get to the advice without seeing how blatantly WRONG you are for calling your ls's hoes and b******.

It may be too late but you should really re-think your reasons. You seem really immature about the whole process.

JMO.

sickofthesefolks · #14 02-28-2001, 08:07 PM

well i guess i should say thanks for all the wonderful advice right....please i haven't gotten any all everyone has come in here and said is that i'm worng and undeserving very few people have given any real advice..............but how am i being immature like i said before i do not have to like them i am mature enough to handle chapter business but that is where it begins and ends most of them are leaving afterwards anyway........to answer some one who mentioned this, no i do not care if i see them after this is over but i know i will see some of them....yall just do not know what they arelike really you do not..........as far as saying soror, everyone is not as sensitive about such trivial things as that and i was not saying that right now i have sorors because i do not but i will and i am sorry if you think that i should not say that but i know what i know i am quite sure we will all get past it unless someone drops.....once people get to this point very few are turned away, and if one of us was turned away i am sure it would be one of them and long as they get their money back they can always try again..............and as far as whoever mentioned the love for their sands, hey thats nice ot know most people do come out and love their sands but i am not one of them i love my big sisters i wish they were my sands but they got it before i did so i sticking it out with these fools till the end and this is just me saying this i am not speaking for the big sisters because i do not know how they personally feel about all of them. I wish my exsperience could have been different but i can not change it understand that we do not have straight up heated arguments or cursing matches or anything of that nature but we have made it clear to each other that we do not like one another sooooooooooo we dealing with it.................no

12dn94dst · #15 02-28-2001, 08:35 PM

I am CRACKING UP!!!

Boy I'll tell you. Don't think for one second that IF your line sisters don't know their stuff (like you say) that the ENTIRE LINE cannot be dropped, because it can. By the way, what happened to the concept of "if one knows, everyone knows"?? Don't be fooled into thinking that your Big Sisters, or anyone else for that matter, cannot see the tension, because they can. They may be acting like they don't to see how you all are going to handle it. It's called a SISTERHOOD CHALLENGE. HOWEVER, since you're apparently not up for the challenge, my advise to you (since you don't know what else to do) is D-R-O-P. Judging by the attitude you've presented here, the organization, your line sisters & that chapter may be better off without you.