Why is it so hard to join?

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I am really interested in becoming a member of Beta Sigma Phi, but I've had no luck in making that happen (admittedly, I have not put a ton of effort into it, but that's because I just don't know where else to turn!). About a year ago, I started researching community sororities and BSP sounded great. At that time, I was returned to school as an adult to finish my degree and was looking to meet other women of my age. Unfortunately, due to financial issues, that's on hold right now (I need just 2 more classes for my AS degree!!) and I still don't really know any women in my community. Although I'm a busy, working mom I have a strong committment and desire to make friendships with women and maintain a life outside of being a mom (and my husband supports me fully). I contacted BSP last year and was told they would send my contact info along to local chapters; I never heard another word. Again this week I emailed them and was told the same thing, but I have no reason to believe I'll be contacted. Plus, I don't even KNOW of chapters in my area (I live in NH if anyone knows of any!). What do I do? How do I make this happen?