Try again or move on?
I'm unsure of what I should do. I am a freshman and rushed in the fall. I rushed two fraternities but spent most of my time and efforts on one. A couple of the guys I had talked to in this fraternity throughout the week thought I would for sure be in. The guy who interviewed me even thought I got a bid and messaged me on facebook to congratulate me. He was shocked when I told him I didn't get one. He encouraged me to keep my head up and come back in the spring and I would most likely for sure get in and that I probably just needed to talk to more guys. Now here's my question. If I wasn't "good enough" or they didn't "want me" in the fall, should I bother giving them a second chance and trying again? Or should I go back to my second choice where I am almost positive I would have/still could get a bid? My first choice, in my opinion, is the best fraternity on campus, but the other one is definitely in the top 3. Any advice?
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