Need Honest Feedback

[Pumpkin101]

Hello Everyone:

Ok, obviously some of you are just too sensitive to words. I have an abundant of friends who are members, and I mean in many organizations. I really don't think that it matters which organization, I would just like to know if any of you have joined a Grad Chapter of a sorority. If your organization doesn't do this, then I'm not speaking to you. I just want to hear about relevant experiences. I'm speaking about NPHC members only!!!!!

Original Message:

I was considering joining an Alumnae Chapter. I have heard many people say that they regretted not pledging as an undergraduate; I'm hoping that I will not feel this way. I am 25 years old, and I bet that many of you wonder why I haven't done it sooner. To be honest, I had some family obligations to take care of. I have taken care of my grandparents, as well as some other family members, for several years now. I was young, and with all that pressure to perform in school and work and take care of them, I simply did not have the time.

Has anyone else been through a similiar thing? I would love to hear how the experience was? I am also married, has anyone had to balance the pledging with their family?