Does Age Really Matter???

AFBluegal · #1 05-13-2007, 10:47 AM

Hi everyone, I am a 32 y/o woman in the USAF. I have been in the military almost 14 years, and I have enough credits to finish my degree. However, it has always been a goal of mine to pledge to a NPHC sorority (I wont say which, just a sign of respect), but due to the constant moving and shaking, I didnt stay in one place long enough to attend school as a full time student. Now, that I am finally in a position to do so, I plan to make this my year. I am just a little unerved at the general age of "pledgees"- which happens to be about 19-21. I am asking for your advice! Should I just wait and go Graduate? Thanks for your help Ladies and Gents!
-AFBluegal

33girl · #2 05-13-2007, 11:34 AM

Go to the NPHC forum of your choice here on GC and read the FAQ that is "stickied" to the top of the forum. It will start out "Important:" and then the title of the thread.

Read the FAQ. Then follow it to the letter.

Good luck!

BlueNYC2 · #3 05-13-2007, 01:32 PM

nah, age doesnt matter. i know frat that was almost 30 when he pledged in Spring 04...and he came thru an undergrad chapter. if you can humble yourself and not take the "process" to heart, and just remember that that is what it is, during that setting, then you'll be iight...

and if you decide to come in thru grad chapter...dependin on the chapter, those in charge of ya process might still be younger than you...

Laak 315 · #4 05-13-2007, 02:12 PM

My chapter had a 49 year old guy and a 27 year old guy pledge this last semester...both are great guys and we're glad to have them. So I would have to say age doesn't matter at all. Just be willing to put everything you can into the organization you wish to join.

AlphaFrog · #5 05-13-2007, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Laak 315

My chapter had a 49 year old guy and a 27 year old guy pledge this last semester...both are great guys and we're glad to have them. So I would have to say age doesn't matter at all. Just be willing to put everything you can into the organization you wish to join.

NPHC = whole different ballgame.

1908Revelations · #6 05-13-2007, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by AFBluegal

Hi everyone, I am a 32 y/o woman in the USAF. I have been in the military almost 14 years, and I have enough credits to finish my degree. However, it has always been a goal of mine to pledge to a NPHC sorority (I wont say which, just a sign of respect), but due to the constant moving and shaking, I didnt stay in one place long enough to attend school as a full time student. Now, that I am finally in a position to do so, I plan to make this my year. I am just a little unerved at the general age of "pledgees"- which happens to be about 19-21. I am asking for your advice! Should I just wait and go Graduate? Thanks for your help Ladies and Gents!
-AFBluegal

Since we do not know the org of your chioce nor are we able to speak for the chapter of your universtiy, we can ONLY give general comments.

First, Thank you for serving our country!

Secondly, there are other discussions about age and joining as an undergraduate. Personally, I do not see a problem with your age and joining on an undergraduate level. However, you mentioned the age range so that wil be something to consider. Should you be selected for membership, the other candidates will very likely be much younger than yourself. The members will be a lot younger than you, if I can find those other threads about 'joining an NPHC org and Age' I will post them.

The undergraduate chapter of the org of your choice may (more than likely) have stipulations about enrollment at the university (enrollment as a full time student).

The org of your choice may have a different selection process for graduate membership than on an undergraduate level (ex. invite only).

Check the International website for the org of your choice and attend functions of the org at your school.

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

NPHC = whole different ballgame.

Thanks

macallan25 · #7 05-13-2007, 04:03 PM

In my opinion, there would have to be a pretty solid reason for pledging anyone that is a junior or over.

Stick to freshmen and sophmores.

1908Revelations · #8 05-13-2007, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

NPHC = whole different ballgame.

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Originally Posted by macallan25

In my opinion, there would have to be a pretty solid reason for pledging anyone that is a junior or over.

Stick to freshmen and sophmores.

Like AlphaFrog said NPHC= whole different ballgame.

I was initiated as a senior.

AFBluegal · #9 05-13-2007, 10:27 PM

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The undergraduate chapter of the org of your choice may (more than likely) have stipulations about enrollment at the university (enrollment as a full time student).

Well I am currently enrolled full time. I want to do this, and I am GOING to do this, usually what I have my mind set to I do, I just know that trying to relate to those with me will be a little difficult. I really appreciate everyone's input! Thanks!!!

12dn94dst · #10 05-13-2007, 10:39 PM

it will only be as difficult as you want it to be. a member of the line after mine was 52 when she pledged. and we've had several non-traditional students on nearly every line since then. and if by chance you don't make line as an undergrad, you can join at the alumnae level.

continue your research and get to know people.

ladygreek · #11 05-13-2007, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by AFBluegal

Hi everyone, I am a 32 y/o woman in the USAF. I have been in the military almost 14 years, and I have enough credits to finish my degree. However, it has always been a goal of mine to pledge to a NPHC sorority (I wont say which, just a sign of respect), but due to the constant moving and shaking, I didnt stay in one place long enough to attend school as a full time student. Now, that I am finally in a position to do so, I plan to make this my year. I am just a little unerved at the general age of "pledgees"- which happens to be about 19-21. I am asking for your advice! Should I just wait and go Graduate? Thanks for your help Ladies and Gents!
-AFBluegal

At many commuter campuses, your age is similar to that of many of the young women seeking membership. Many of them have returned to school after getting married and having children, etc.

AOII Angel · #12 05-14-2007, 07:16 AM

Good luck! Sounds like any group would be lucky to have you!

AlphaFrog · #13 05-14-2007, 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by AOII Angel

Good luck! Sounds like any group would be lucky to have you!

This isn't a "rush" thread, and you don't go into the NPHC wanting "any group". You go in (ideally), having done your research, talked to members, gone to informationals, etc.

12dn94dst · #14 05-14-2007, 09:33 AM

In AOII Angel's defense, the OP didn't mention, or even allude to the sorority of her choice. So she's saying any of the 4 would be lucky to have her.

AlphaFrog · #15 05-14-2007, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by 12dn94dst

In AOII Angel's defense, the OP didn't mention, or even allude to the sorority of her choice. So she's saying any of the 4 would be lucky to have her.

I know. It just looked like something that was copied and pasted from an NPC rush thread.

It was amusing if anything.